one of my friends hate me cause i'm going out with one of her friends! but hes the one who asked me out and she had already known i was going out with him! what should i do?
2006-10-29 04:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by eryn m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't take it personally. She may have had a crush on your date and is jealous that you got to him first, especially since he asked you. That means he chose you over her. Hopefully she'll grow up someday and remember that you are a valuable friend. In the mean time, try and be nonjudgmental of her and let her know that you miss her, but DON'T apologize or else she will think she is justified and will learn nothing. Be a good, patient friend and enjoy your new boyfriend.
2006-10-29 04:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by kim b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds envyous of your relationship with her friend... maybe she likes him more that a friend.. The two of you should talk... don't ruin a friendship over a guy.... I don't think she hates you... she just wishes she had him for herself...and if you are still a young woman, there is a good chance that this guy won't be the last in your life, the relationship between you and him will end completly after you part company... but your girl friend can be your friend for LIFE!!
2006-10-29 12:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by T-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that she needs to get over it. Tell her to just relax. Ask her why it makes her so mad. That she hates you. And you know what if she still doesn't give you a good answer and she is still mad at you. THen just let her go as your friend. You don't need friends like that. Friends should also be there for you.
2006-10-29 13:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First friends don't hate each other for any reason.
If hates involved there is no friendship.
Secondly...a real friend would never date a guy if her friend also has feelings for him even if he was the one to ask.
Friendship is not worth a guy. If you learn that now you'll be ahead of the game.
2006-10-29 12:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are forever guys are for whenever... try talking to ur friend if she doesnt want to give up on ths maybe she has a good reason but unless u really LOVE this guy dont give up a good friendship for a silly guy
2006-10-29 13:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_stuff_0989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend doesn't hate you, it sounds more like jealousy. If she says she will no longer be your friend if you go out w/ him then she never really was your friend. Friends do not give ultimatums.
2006-10-29 12:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she really hates you, you'll need compassion to stay friends.
2006-10-29 12:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do, it was her choice to not like you. Trying to talk to her , but it probably wouldn't help. She is just jealous.
2006-10-29 12:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words
2006-10-29 12:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by dreamz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him/her at once and never think of it again
2006-10-29 12:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by MandO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋