Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

in the animal Kingdom - Gorrillas for example put on a big display and pound thier chests to control and lead the other Gorrillas - when it comes to woman... are tears and displaying excessive emotions just such a display to lead the male in a certain direction....

Much like the angry fist pounding swearing tantrums that males sometimes show?
should the male let himself be lead?

2006-10-29 04:22:01 · 13 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm thirteen and my mom is such a fag.[but i love her.] So I was at a party the other night and one of the single most hottest boy in my class asked me to dance, so I said yes. The party was coming to an end and guess who is standing at the window to see me and this adorable boy grinding... my mom. She was so completely appauled she has locked me in the house and when I ever I try to escape, the alarm goes.

Guess what else?
He called to see what had happened and if I wanted to go out with on friday. My mom disconnected the phone.

Help me. Please.

2006-10-29 04:22:00 · 17 answers · asked by xoxsugarrbabe 1 in Family

how does a girl dress up for halloween to make a guys pants feel heavier?

2006-10-29 04:21:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will on a baseball team starting this week. The other guys on the team have talked to me before but not a lot. I'd really like to get to know them and make more friends. Can someone please help me with that. Thanks

2006-10-29 04:20:31 · 3 answers · asked by Ritesh S 1 in Friends

Lets say your married for 10 to 15 years and a horrible accident happens that your husband loses his penis. Would you stay with him????

2006-10-29 04:20:16 · 17 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is really embarrassing -- Okay, now please don't just reply saying to just 'suck it up' or 'do a reality check', because I've tried telling myself that and it hasn't helped--Here it is: My husband and I have been together for 6 years and I was in a previous marriage before that, and with HIM for 12 yrs. I didn't have this issue with my ex, but it has cropped up now and is truly ruling my life. I can't stand the sexiness in today's media (I'm 34) like music videos, TV, movies, songs, etc, and although my husband is totally faithful and has loved me at my various weights (and looks at me like I'm a princess even when I'm hideous), I can't help but feel sort of panicky at the thought of watching scenes with gorgeous women or those acting sexy. He doesn't watch porn and is sooo devoted, but I still feel insecure. I promise I'm not making this up. You know how sometimes someone will just say that 1 right thing that helps you to snap you out of something? That's what I'm looking for. Th

2006-10-29 04:18:56 · 4 answers · asked by BetchaBiteAChip 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy that I have been seeing for 5 months is going through a really really rough time. He is having problems with his ex with whom he has a child with. She has taken away his cell phone which was on her account and he fears he is going to lose his son as well. He does not deal well with these kinds of problems and is about to fall off the deep end. He says that it is nothing personal and he has disappeared from everyone else also. He said he will call me when he can deal with other things again.

2006-10-29 04:18:54 · 3 answers · asked by christinlk 2 in Singles & Dating

here's the deal. me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months. we met in a coffee shop not far from our work places and it was love at first sight. we are also neighbours, so pretty soon we practically started living together. he even says that he wants to marry me and i feel the same.
so, what's the problem? well, my beau is a registered member of our country's most popular online dating service. although we have an intense relationship, he continues to log in every day. he talks to girls in a manner i would describe as flirting but he sticks to his explanation that he just teases them. some of those girls are as young as 17-18. on the other hand, he doesn't approve me going out with my best friend on saturday nights (she is also in a serious relationship) because he thinks i'm too flirtatious and that i'm attracted to the thought of strange guys hitting on me, although i wouldn't trade my bf for anything.
so, who's the crazy one here? is it me or is it him? please help, tnx!

2006-10-29 04:18:06 · 23 answers · asked by kitty-cat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 04:17:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, this has happened to me several times in the last month or two and I don't know what to say in return. "Thanks" is just awkward. I've also tried playing it off, but that's also semi-awkward. Any thoughts?

And also what's the motive behind a girl who says that? Does she still have a crush? Or is she totally over you?

Thanks :-).

2006-10-29 04:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by dr.prah 1 in Singles & Dating

WHEN YOU WANTED TO WIN A RACE?

2006-10-29 04:15:19 · 17 answers · asked by julean33 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend her name is charlotte she is alwase breaking up with me and controlling my life
I have another group of friends megan,becky and jess
and they all dont like charlotte i want to go off with megan,beck and jess but charlotte keeps following and being really annoying what shall i do!

2006-10-29 04:15:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-29 04:14:37 · 10 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

He, my boyfriend attempted to touch me from behind and I thought it was the stupid dog. I yelled and then learned it was him. I apologized but I still feel really bad for yelling at him. What should I do?

2006-10-29 04:14:04 · 10 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

fund raiser but the problem is they speak french i think everybody at the party is going to speak french since i live in paris, iam an american by the way, anyway i need help what should i do should i go or stay? i know ery little french!

2006-10-29 04:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by garnessilva 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that had a crush on me a long time ago, but i didnt do anything about it because i was involved with something else. The relationship is over and just a few weeks ago we would lock eyes every single time we passed in the hall. Now she is completely ignoring me, whats up with this!?

2006-10-29 04:13:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 04:11:33 · 9 answers · asked by sexii_mamii92 1 in Singles & Dating

the wife is torturing the husband mentally by being totally inconsiderate and forcing sex

2006-10-29 04:11:16 · 5 answers · asked by anubhuti p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. We have a baby girl. We have been to hell and back since we were married. We have had major financial trouble, he lost his mother and he's had a hard time finding work he wants. Lately he doesn't bother with me or my daughter. Most of the time when I try to initiate sex he pushes me away. He tells me he's tired, stressed out, depressed anything really. He works from 3am, but only works for a few hours a day. He then spends the rest of the day online, relaxing or sleeping. How do I get him to want me? I have always had a very high drive, but lately feel so lonely not only in the bedroom but in our relationship too. Should I leave him alone or keep pushing for some lovin?

2006-10-29 04:08:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I always hear people say that you must wait till marriage to have sex. Why? Whats going to happen if you lose it to someone you dont marry? I lost it to a prostitute when I was 15 and nothing bad has ever happened to me as a result. I did however get bragging rights for the rest of my highschool years because I lost mine before almost anyone else in my classes did. Whats the big deal??????

2006-10-29 04:08:19 · 13 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

THIS IS THE BEST PLACE TO VENT!! I cannot stand my step-son! My husband and I have been married just over 3 years. I've given my all to try and be a good mom to his son, since his own mother never gave him any morals or good examples (she used to smoke pot in front of him!!). I treated him like my own girls. He lived with his father and I since we got married, his mother could not handle the responsibility. He was unruley as a young child, and was diagnosed with ADHD. I took that into consideration over the years. Being the smart *** as he is, he would always have an answer, you could never have the last word. Never ever would he lift a finger to pitch in around the house unless he was asked directly, or left a detailed note. This past year has been the worst. In April he went to live with his mother (not too far away). He is now 17. Last year he was accidentally shot in the eye with a pellet gun, and is blind in the left eye. (continued)

2006-10-29 04:08:19 · 7 answers · asked by LARGE MARGE 5 in Family

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-29 04:07:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf of 2 years proposed to me a few months ago. we are both 19 and are still getting our qualifications etc, so dont have the money to have a big fancy wedding. i always thought i wanted a huge wedding but now we just want to elope to Portugal (where he's from). however, his family are very traditional and are already upset he's not marrying a Portuguese girl. i dont really give a **** what they think of me, but im worried they will be upset with him and i do not want this to happen. he says he doesnt care but deep down i know he does. i believe a wedding is about 2 ppl and thats all that matters. do you guys reckon we should plan a big traditional wedding to appease his family or just go for it and deal with the consequences?

2006-10-29 04:06:01 · 22 answers · asked by bekr_leigh 1 in Weddings

tion and get him to marry me ? Don't worry, we both do not have any stds. This is true. He had about 200 women a year for 13 years (he is 36 years old). He was sexually abused as a child. He is very handsome and charming. He loves women a little too much. How do I get him to marry me and focus only on me ?

2006-10-29 04:05:16 · 22 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 04:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by PRINCEZZ 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and a friend had this discussion, as many before us did most likely ... and while I think that there has to be a happy medium (no millimeter peter and no untalented hacks) she seems to think that all a guy needs is a big c*ck. Lets hear your answers!!!!

2006-10-29 04:04:43 · 16 answers · asked by brishaalden 2 in Singles & Dating

can't be too gushy, he's just a friend.

2006-10-29 04:04:26 · 1 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 04:03:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I WAS PLANNING TO GET MY BOYFRIEND A CELL PHONE FOR CHRISTMAS BECUASE HE REALLY WANTS ONE..WE ARE 15..IS THAT TOO MUCH?

2006-10-29 04:03:43 · 5 answers · asked by Lana D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is 21, she has been married since 15 and has 3 kids under the age of 5. she has never had the chance to be a teen or a young woman on her own without her husband around. He will not even alow me and her and the kids to go out to eat. she is debating on divorce what should she do?

2006-10-29 04:03:19 · 28 answers · asked by cert_pharm_tech21 1 in Marriage & Divorce