There is this girl that had a crush on me a long time ago, but i didnt do anything about it because i was involved with something else. The relationship is over and just a few weeks ago we would lock eyes every single time we passed in the hall. Now she is completely ignoring me, whats up with this!?
2006-10-29 04:13:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go and get her, convince her that if you had left who you were with for her, how could she ever have trusted you wouldn't of done the same to her?
2006-10-29 04:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have moved on or she could be thinking if he asks me out I am just replacing his ex. It is one of the weird thigns women do. If you actually want her tell her. Make sure you let her know you have moved on from your ex and you do like her. She might have moved on. Girls are weird they crush but we usually have a different crush every week. Dont mean we forget about the first one. I mean **** I crushed on a guy from 1st to 4th and I still think about it. He was gorgous. Anyways just let her know how you feel. Worst that could happen is her rejecting you. By the way I am 19 so yeah this is not high schooler advice LOL
2006-10-29 04:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably hurt her feelings the first time and she's afraid you will do it again. Talk to her. She might even be seeing someone now. Write her a note and ask her if she wants to grab dinner sometime. You shouldn't jump from one relationship to another right away, but you can date and have fun.
2006-10-29 04:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to the runner up... She has pride. She isn't Round 2.
Pursue her if you want. If not, don't expect her to throw herself at you or something and for all you know she might have a new crush since you were unavailable.
2006-10-29 04:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by snape4good 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has moved on or maybe now she is going to play hard to get. Try talking to her and then you will get a feel for what she is thinking or if she has moved on with some one else.
2006-10-29 04:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just experienced the Time Lag - if you wait too long to acknowledge a female, she will resent you for the rest of your life.
2006-10-29 04:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this is called carma when she wanted you, you didnt want her now that you want her she dont want you. Maybe she found someone else. People get tire of waiting. She just doing what you did to her.
2006-10-29 04:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u flirt with a girl whom u just consider as a frnd feels that u love her. so think twice b4 flirting. she is ignoring u becoz she wants 2 forget u.
2006-10-29 04:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably sick of u ignoring her. she probably wants more attention. talk to her, make her laugh, sit with her at lunch....do watever it takes to get her attention and show her that u care.
i'm in a very similar situation right now....theres this guy i like but i'm currently ignoring him becoz he's not consistant with me. sometimes he behaves as if he's never seen me before and sometimes he treats me like his best friend.
2006-10-29 04:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by amandac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she's avoiding to be the rebound or your ex is spreading some shady information about you and she's gotten wind of it.
2006-10-29 04:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋