I have this friend her name is charlotte she is alwase breaking up with me and controlling my life
I have another group of friends megan,becky and jess
and they all dont like charlotte i want to go off with megan,beck and jess but charlotte keeps following and being really annoying what shall i do!
2006-10-29 04:15:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have a heart to heart talk with Charlotte and tell her how you feel. Come out and tell her that you have other friends that you want to be with. But be careful, don't live your life for your friends. Just because they don't like someone, you decide. Not your friends who you choose to like.
2006-10-29 04:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are an inidividual and not Charlotte's slave. You have to be big and strong enough to stand up to Charlotte and not let her push you around.
However you need to decide if you want to be friends with Charlotte and not let Megan, Beck and Jess make that decision for you. If you don't want to be friends with Charlotte then that decision must be yours. If you do it just to fit in with the others then you are being a sheep.
2006-10-29 08:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by pab76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with this Charlotte tell her you dont want to be friends because she isnt a nice person. It may be hard but it will be good in the long run. Shes only following because she probably doesnt have any other friends.
2006-10-29 06:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Charlotte how you feel, To be honest yes she may get hurt but its better to let her down now then leave it a while and if she will find out another way this will also hurt her,
To be honest i do not think that you are showing anyone any respect at the moment
when you will grow up you will understand this!
2006-10-29 04:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u shall do is , be honest with her tell her how u fell that she is really annoying , u have to tell her because if u don't some of this friends are gonna tell her and end up in a fight .
if u don't want your friends to go away from u , u better talk to Charlotte .
2006-10-29 04:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by the underdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur friend is lonely, controling and desperate. and u sound younge so its difficult at such a younge age to tell people how things are going to be and still be mature about it. i think u should tell charlotte that you still want to be friends, u charish the friendship but she needs to deal with u having other friends. and u should say the same to the other friends. let them know that it isnt fair to have to choose ande fight between who u want to hang out with. do the best u can. if they r really your friends then they will come around and still like u in the end.
2006-10-29 04:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by snagglepuss731 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to kick Charlotte to the kerb, and stick with your other friends. Ignore Charlotte for a while and hopefully she will come around and realise that she can't treat people like that
2006-10-29 04:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go off with your real friends. A real friend would never try to control you. Ignore her when she acts up. Tell her if she does not back off you will go to the cops for harassment and stalking.
2006-10-29 04:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit charlotte down and explain that you dont like the way she is or the person she is and just be honest with her and tell her that you dont wana hang with her anymore. honesty is always the best policy. good luck
2006-10-29 04:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Charlotte doesnt sound like much of a friend. tell her to go away and stay away.
2006-10-29 04:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋