if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
2006-10-29 04:07:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds annoying. First of all, her ex probably wants to be left alone. Why does she need him to say hi so badly? Does she need him that much? She definitely is not over him at all. And I'm sorry to say my dear but you are the rebound...
2006-10-29 04:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she isn't completely over her ex and/or seeking closer. If he doesn't respond to her as many times as she's called and writen emails to him, she is still clinging on to something. A girl wouldn't care so much about her ex if she's content in the current relationship. She may still have feelings for her ex if she's so determined to contact him so often. Don't allow yourself to be put as second in her heart. I think the best thing to do here is to seperate from her since she can't seperate herself from her past relatonship while being with you.
2006-10-29 12:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by kz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she keeps calling him and he doesn't call back and they aren't friends anymore then she isn't over him completely. she wouldn't constantly be calling him every couple weeks. thats ridiculous. coming from myself a girls point of view. if that was me which ive done before and i wasnt over them.
2006-10-29 12:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by bballbabe725 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN.
2006-10-29 12:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋