tion and get him to marry me ? Don't worry, we both do not have any stds. This is true. He had about 200 women a year for 13 years (he is 36 years old). He was sexually abused as a child. He is very handsome and charming. He loves women a little too much. How do I get him to marry me and focus only on me ?
2006-10-29 04:05:16 · 22 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see i think u shud leave him . its very simple to think abt it
he has left abt 200 women, then how can u trust on him that he wud be faithful to u? well nyways if u r still interested in him.............
try to know abt things he likes in women n try to show ur concern 4 him.
if he's gud like his personality he'll definitely understand u!!
2006-10-29 04:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a man that has slept with 200 women a year for the last 13 years..I highly doubt that he is going to give that up...he's 36..by that age people are generally rather set in their ways. Of course this is notwithstanding some kind of miracle..maybe he did become a born again Christian and has changed his ways. You need to find out if that is a short term change. He might gradually slip back into his old ways somewhere down the road.
How do you get his attention? Why would you want it if he isn't willing to give it freely? The most important thing for you to discern in all of this is whether he has or is willing to give up all other women for you..for the rest of his life. If he isn't then perhaps you need to cut your losses and move on. Afterall, who wants a husband that they have to worry about every minute of the day....
2006-10-29 12:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by immortal.beloved 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, it is very good of him to tell you of howmany women he has slept with and also to tell you the reason is because he was sexually abuse as a child
born again christain does that mean he is a virgin again
has he seek therapy for the abuse
if he is truly born again you should have nothing to worry about
he willnot even have sex with you before the wedding
But girl before the wedding get him to a dog for STD tests
I know you guys don't have STD but this is word of mouth
you should do thetests together
2006-10-29 12:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person espousing a Christian theology will hold it's tenets as important and conform to the 'one man one woman' definition of holy matrimony. His choice will be his own and you will not be able to get him to do anything he will not do. Make sure you have an understanding up front.
2006-10-29 12:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has some "issues" he has to deal with being a born again christian doesn't mean anything unless he lives the life...If you really love him let him know and tell him you want him in your life and if he can't be with just you than maybe you should move on.....Good Luck to you.
2006-10-29 12:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must be crazy or insane completely if u are going for such a guy. What a waste of life. Wake up and think. Why are u falling in a ditch???????????
2006-10-29 12:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Im a question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really doubtful that he has actually slept with that many women, but if he has, don't you think he's probably full of STDs? you dont want that. find somebody that loves women a little less, and who isn't such a manwhore
2006-10-29 12:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally no sensible woman would like to marry. What is the basis of ur choice "His capacity to screw u".
2006-10-29 12:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't!! If that's the way he is, and he won't change then you're just giving up your life's worth. Now I'm wondering....how many people do you sleep with?
2006-10-29 12:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I think this is major BS, you cannot make a womanizer change if he doesnt want to.
2006-10-29 12:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋