Im quite a shy lass and at the age of 22 yet to experience having a boyfriend sad i know! The thing is i could do with some tips in how to flirt with guys as i think this is where im going wrong. As everyone seems to be meeting their partner and i feel im left on the shelf and is getting me down that ive yet to experience it. I dont know how to flirt and just need some basic tips as theres this guy i like where i work and ive known him just over a year and would love something to happen between us but dont know what else i can do to make him interested. My gut instinct says he likes me but knowing my luck its probably me thinking it as i have no luck with guys even though i dont think im unatractive. Please help
2006-10-29 03:40:12 · 11 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all u can do hun is talk to them. when u see them say hi how r u? etc etc. if hes interested he will reply in kind (ie flirt a bit with you). its not sad u know. i was 19 when i met my 1st (and so far only) girlfriend. be careful when it comes to dating someone at work. could get messy if it goes wrong
2006-10-29 05:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question! I'm 21 and in the same position. I'm very shy too. If you get a good answer, can you please let me know.
My opinion is talking to this guy can be a good start, then asking him out for coffee, just as friends/colleagues at first. I know it can be a lot to ask from a shy girl. Remember I'm one too. But I guess if girls like us don't make the first move every now and then, we'll stay single all our life. Hope this helps and good luck.
2006-10-29 03:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd advise you to look elsewhere as it's never healthy to have an office relationship. Business and pleasure don't mix. however if u wish to press on, then i guess that showing him signals that u've got the hots for him. if it' were me, i'd go up to him to chat more often and compliment him abt what he wears, joke with him and if i'm bold (normally am), i'd straightaway ask him out. but since you're the shy type, maybe offer him something home cooked one day, like cookies or have a colleague gathering out for the cinema. That's a good way to break out of the office code and let loose. Go out clubbing with ur colleagues and invite him along. it'll at least make both parties feel comfortable and not too awkward. then u can slowly edge ur way in.
goodluck!!!!!! (*-*)
2006-10-29 03:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by debrakhoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ur prob is quite interesting!! so u meet the guy quite everyday. u can do a lot of thing then!! i think u've to change urself. from now on wear stylish dresses but those which r sober. u can choose the dresses from various magazines. then u concentrate on ur eyes coz guys forget everything when they look on sparklin eyes. make ur eyes dusky and shady, put a lot of eye liner and kajal. whatever hair u've got staright or curl, make it look good, remember fully tied up hair is not good. put on cool accessories. then talk to him in a way no girl has talk b4 with him. giv the sensation of ur voice. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-29 04:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by DrAmA QuEeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull about getting involved with someone from work, if things don't work out and it gets messy it could it could make life very uncomfortable. As for meeting guys maybe you should find somewhere you can go with a friend to meet guys/ pub or activity...don't pressure yourself, take your time and keep smiling and things will fall into place. good luck! xxx
2006-10-29 03:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by paul b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress for the part...Dress sexy..Revealing clothes..
Use accidental body contact...
Brush up against guys,
Put your hands on them, hold their arms...
Pretend you are interested in what they have to say...
Choose a guy that has real potential in life for a good successful future....Don't choose based only on looks and charisma...
Looks and Charisma do not support wives and families...
2006-10-29 03:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like each other, you don't need to flirt - you'd just change into this other person overnight and he wouldn't know what hit him - you'd probably freak him out. Just go to lunch with him and get to know him and things will take their own course...
2006-10-29 03:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In developing a relationship female part is dressing attractive,looking sexy,smiling and flirting to that specific person,i don't think these are hard to do!..but never start a convo. never ask him out,these are males part.
2006-10-29 04:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to "flirt"...all you need is a little confidence...try starting a simple conversation by saying "hi", followed by a question that's work related..;don't panic, just be yourself
2006-10-29 06:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by murphy51024 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B your normal self, try to be-friend them like normal friends and you will find friends coming your way! You need to attract people by your warmth and openness!!
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tom
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2006-10-29 03:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋