I'm so confused about the guy I've been dating on and off for 6 months. He shows he cares about me. He tries to satisfy me sexually, we hold hands, we go out when we can, we can talk about nothing. But then what pisses me off is something happens that makes me think he doesn't care about me. Just recently he asked me if I would do something with him on webcam so that he could see other people do stuff on webcam. Another time was when we were talking and we were talking about living together, he brought up how he'd want me to go on birth control so that we could have sex without a condem. He was also giving me bullshit about a condem feeling uncomfortable and how birth control has a 96% chance of not failing. I said I wanted to use a condem always no matter what because I don't want to have children anytime soon. He's also been wanting to have a threesome with his friend (a guy). I haven't given him a clear answer on that yet. Feel free to comment if want to say anything.
2006-10-29 03:34:03 · 14 answers · asked by hearts99992000 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to do anything with him on webcam but I haven't told him my feelings on that yet. I find it's making me seriously doubt him again.
2006-10-29 03:35:06 · update #1
I hate how I love him but my mind and heart don't agree with the decision to break it off with him soon so that I can find someone less sexual.
2006-10-29 03:37:17 · update #2
condem thing-He could have mentioned something and we could haver tried to find better condems.
2006-10-29 03:39:40 · update #3
Your being used sweetie! Your his sex toy, plain and simple, he'll tell you whatever he thinks you want to hear, but your just a piece of ***. Sorry, if it was "LOVE", he wouldn't want to share you, or give you to someone else! If you were the love of his life would he want his buddy inside you????? NO WAY, dump him and change your number.
2006-10-29 03:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by toosearch2 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'll agree the webcam thing is a bit off the wall. As far as the comdom thing I don't blame him, condoms really do ruin sex. The lubrication on the inside of them wears out and eventually the rubbing of latex is disatisfying. So that's not bullshit, that's realshit
The fact that he mentioned the other guy though, I'd drop his *** just for mentioning that.
2006-10-29 03:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should NEVER let someone talk you into doing something that you are not 100% comfortable with. You MUST ALWAYS be honest with him IMMEDIATELY. By not clearly and immediately expressing your doubts, you're giving him reason to believe that you DO NOT have reservations where his desires are concerned. I don't agree that he's a loser or a freak because I don't know enough about him. I hesitate to label him as such because there are many people with fantasies about sexual experiences that are not in the "norm", however, they are legal with two consenting adults. ALWAYS BE HONEST AND BE HONEST IMMEDIATELY. ALLOW NO ROOM FOR DOUBT AND NO ROOM FOR COERCION.
2006-10-29 04:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Enough 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that if he really cared then he wouldn't keep asking you to go on birth control and you know what pisses me off is the whole 3 some and web came thing. if i were you i would talk to him about it if he still wants things his way then break up with him.
2006-10-29 03:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by I Wont Tell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem too comfortable with this guy, it it looks like he doesn't care much about you, just sex! Send him packing and find a decent caring guy before it's too late! ( and tell him if he really wants a 3 some, for him and the other guy to have at it you'll just watch!)
2006-10-29 03:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by MC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The big red flag is the threesome with another guy. He has no respect for you whatsoever if he wants to do that and if he wants sex with a guy, you know he's bi and possibly gay. Tell him to get lost. He's very bad news.
2006-10-29 03:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you in all probability ought to've controll'd your anger, yet what replaced into your mom thinking? She ought to have prepar'd you first && i will assure you this entire situation could have never happen'd. it relatively is not your fault you probably did no longer wanna babysit on Halloween lol. don't sense so undesirable, yet once you're responsible discover the female && make an apology. it relatively isn't any enormous deal, you're no longer thoroughly interior the incorrect, in simple terms in the way it replaced into handl'd. (:
2016-10-20 23:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can be the fool !
I wonder how you feel if he wants to share with 3 or 5 other Friends.
Get smart get rid of that cra p.
2006-10-29 03:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have doubts since he wants you to do it so he can watch someone else sounds strange to me if he doesnt talk about anything maybe he is hiding something i would start looking elsewhere for a boyfriend love isnt all sex you should be able to share your true feelings
2006-10-29 03:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by merlin2000666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are too many fish in the sea for you to be stuck on this literal "clown" fish. Seriously, that's not cool and you're better off alone or with someone else.
2006-10-29 03:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋