hi me & my friend (girl) stopped talking 4 the past 2 years. just misunderstandings but i really care 4 her as a tru friend i want 2 clear all misunderstandings & tell her that i care 4 her. but the problem is 1 of my friend said that if i talk to that girl again he will tell her that i stopped talking 2 my mother due 2 her & that i've been on fasting 4 her sake 4 the past 3 years wishing & praying 2 god that she should get a gud hubby & nice in-laws. i don't want that girl 2 know these things. i've been wasting time whether 2 tell her the actual things or not. what to do? i am not bothered whether she will understand my friendship or not but just i want to tell her that i care for her. any suggestions? don't think that i am obsessive with this girl. normally i do care for everyone. even for my old neighbours & friends (this includes ladies also)
2006-10-29 02:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by Dvij 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen to yourself and if you think you should speak to her then go for it. You might never know when it's too late. Don't left things undone and words unspoken.
2006-10-29 03:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have stated that all that is stopping you from contacting her is the threat your other so called friend has stated. Mate if she means as much to you as you have said she does then dont let anything stop you from contacting her. Life in this world is so very short why wast it with misunderstandings and threats
2006-10-29 12:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell her the actual things and don't bother about anything or anybody if you really care for her and she will understand you I'm sure. " BEST WISHES" .
2006-10-29 10:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about that friend
juz tell it like it is
let her noe u care and u would like to patch things up with her
she will most likely ask why wait 2 yrs(well i would)
anyway
juz tell her the truth
2006-10-29 10:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by x040493t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i don't think that you are obsessive with this girl,bcz a lot of people are in your shoes,i think that you should call you mother first and solve all the issues that are hung between the2 of you,then talk to your friend and tell her about your feeling AND ABOUT YOUR TALK WITH YOUR MOM,and that you solved every thing between you.just tell her the TRUTH...that always works.......................Be Strong...............&..............Good Luck.
2006-10-29 11:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by xxxxxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her, and when you do tell her not to listen to whatever that friend is gonna tell her about you cuz its not true.
2006-10-29 10:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesent trust you and believe yout then dont go for her
2006-10-29 11:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by =D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel-she'll like it
2006-10-29 11:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by IKNOWNO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋