I cant forget that my bf cheated me. How to forget it? he is not my bf anymore but i always have to think about what he made. it is like a knife in my heart...
2006-10-29 02:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by xxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those of us who have been cheated on (me) before we can relate. My thoughts are generally "If he wanted to sleep with someone else why didn't he just end our relationship and then do it?" You're going to be angry for a long time and that's ok. He's a jerk and something was wrong with him, not you, so don't blame yourself. If Halle Berry gets cheated on you know that there is something wrong with our society. You may never forget about it and sometimes that can be a good thing because in the future you may be more cautious and know what the signs are. In time it will get easier. Just keep yourself busy. Talk to friends, go to movies, read books, exercise. Whatever you can. Even find a good therapist if you need to. This guy is not worth all of the anguish that you seem to be in and you need to make yourself happy here.
2006-10-29 03:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by sleep2dream65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to forgive and forget when guys do that sort of stuff but I guess you just have to move on and remember that it wasn't anything you did, if he tries to rest all the blame on you. Find someone new but I wouldn't you jump head first into another relationship make friends with the guy first.Hopes this helps!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-29 11:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by jamsterz10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain! Just keep in mind that you are so much better. He cheated so he is a dog and always will be. Do something for yourself to make yourself feel better. Good Luck!
2006-10-29 10:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by joyall57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to be rude but I mean what do you want us to do about it? You already know you need to move on. Start concentrating on you. Remember the things that you like to do with yourself before he came along. You need time for you and when you spend time with you that means improving you: Mind, body, and spirit. Get yourself a friend. Take the relationship slow let him know that you are just getting over a relationship and you need time to grow. If he can not respect that then you are with the wrong one. Its hard to stop thinking about someone who hurts you but stop and learn to occupy your time with other things.
2006-10-29 11:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For starters, start thinking about another guy. You can forgive him, by not thinking about him. You'll be happier that way, too. Do you still have a bf, even if it's not him?
2006-10-29 10:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is difficult to forgot him but atleast try to do this bcz as much as u think of his, u'll in pain all the time.so plz leave him and live a happy life without him.
2006-10-29 10:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by aani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon Leja! Find a new one and get a move on!
2006-10-29 10:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by cruix_delavista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a new boy friend.
2006-10-29 10:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by akash_india_black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋