I met a guy through internet dating. Before we met in person, we chatted on the phone and he would text me every morning and night just say hi. There were many flirting and teasing too. Before we met up last weekend- i was worried that he was just after sex. So I asked directly and he said he wanted both sex and maybe more but who knows. We met up then there r so many chemistry btw us so we snogged for 2 hrs! Then he came alone to see me again the next day as we live in different cities. I said I could not invite him to my place because we would jump into bed. He said it was fine just meet me 4cafe- after one cafe he said he wanted to go home to chill out. I felt bad then invite him home for DVDs. i ended up giving him a hand job but nothing more. He txted me in 2days with a hi. On3rd nights we talked on phone but he got an ex stay in his flat.He introduced us over phone latersaid he didnot have sex with her that night 4 unknown reasons. Should i believe him and keep in touch with him?
2006-10-29 02:52:25 · 11 answers · asked by confusedgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you for your all advice- i must say he also give me a *******. When we were on the phone he was already hard. I told him to let her go back to her own room and he did. He said she returned and i called again he answered. He also kept texting me- if he was shagging her how could he do that? He said he did not shag her as the mood s gone. I do like him l alot- and arenot there many relationshipd start with sex?
2006-10-29 03:07:38 · update #1
Thanks for all the wise answers- i also felt a bit bad because i have been lck of self control too. He did mentioned that he knew I was not just after sex and he still keep in touch with me after that. Could it be he is just a guy who does not want to plan too much? In the other hand we just start dating and both of us could see other people ? He was so sweet though..
2006-10-29 03:21:43 · update #2
He just wants sex, and if thats all you want too ... then that's fine.
You have already shown him that you don't have any boundaries or expectations, and you aren't going to have a real relationship with this guy no matter what hopes you may have. None of your actions gave this guy any respect for you.
You might as well just enjoy the sex because that's all you are going to get out of this.
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"Could it be he is just a guy who does not want to plan too much? In the other hand we just start dating and both of us could see other people ? He was so sweet though."
No. And you two aren't "dating". You are casual sex partners. If you were actually "dating" he never in a million years would have shared all the details about the other night. He could be a very sweet guy ... that has nothing to do with any of this.
2006-10-29 03:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your damn brain. Why would a man allow an ex-girlfriend to spend the night with him? If you don't believe he was Shagging her, I have a bridge to sell you. The man is in for the sex, nothing wrong with that as long as that's all you want too. If you want more than just sex stop looking on the Internet for it.
2006-10-29 03:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having phone sex with him. When he ask you whats wrong tell his not going to get any more if he can give it back to you. You deserve to have some pleasure too. And I tell him if he can't get into it like you then don't bother. You can get it off the phone from some stranger if he likes!
2016-05-22 05:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want just sex then your with the wrong guy.The fact that you took him back to your place disregaurding your own boundaries just to keep him from leaving and then you let it get sexual, well he knows how to play you already.ps.next time you get the hand job..not him, what did you get out of giving him one other than a new found lack of respect from him??
2006-10-29 03:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want my man having his ex around for anything, especially sex. You may be setting yourself up for heartbreak. Careful..
2006-10-29 02:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by hotrod69grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should read your question.
You give sex away like candy.
What do you care what he does.
Your getting your stud.
2006-10-29 03:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big time player.Sweep him to the curb FAST
2006-10-29 02:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is keeping a full schedule of panties to get into and your on the list. It is up to you if you like sharing him and you like being one of his harem
2006-10-29 02:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...let this loser go. He's a dog. You deserve better luvy!!!
2006-10-29 02:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the curb
2006-10-29 02:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋