when you tell someone about a guy you are in love with and you only 14 years old they just say 'what do you know your not really in love you just think your in love but your not really' or they say 'your too young to be in love' etc etc.
its just not true. and why do some people just think anyone who takes drugs as a loser. maybe they had a reason for starting.
and when i say that i love a guy who is on drugs they just tell me to keep away or leave him. i mean if you were on drugs and were going through a rough time would you want everyone who loved you to leave you?
2006-10-29 02:49:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First I do think its wrong for someone to say you aren't in love. You are expericene a different level. You are figuring out who you are and part of that is caring for other people. Secondly, when you love someone part of that involves tough love. You can show you love someone and not support them in the lifestyle. Your boyfriend is abusing drugs. You can support him when he chooses to get help. And understand you can do that for him he has to want to do that for himself. Support and love him from afar. Think about it would he want you to put yourself in harms way because of him. Learn about substance abuse so when he is ready to get help you and help and support him in that. Wish lots of luck
2006-10-29 02:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dayna W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First loves last a long time and many young people think they are in love when they are, but some people do fall in love at young ages aswell. Most people who take drugs just fall into it by peer pressure but some people are almost forced into it by hurt or stress. People who are proud of taking drugs i think are losers but others just need help. I was in love from 13/14 and that has ended, now i am in love again and I still believe i was in love in the past, don't worry about most people saying you are too young, people cannot believe what they haven't experienced or seen...especially without proof.
2006-10-29 10:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have to grow up cause at the age of 14 you think you know everything but you DON'T and drugs isn't a way to solve your problems your just gona make it worse!!!!!!!!!11
2006-10-29 11:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by sexy chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ur rite in a way but teens really dont no wat luv is .i mean wat is luv.i m 15 and ne1 can say those words but u dont nesecaryly love da person i like 2 say im in lust.but u shudnt leave da guy on drugs alone but u shud put some distane in2 dat .but u shud really try 2 help him.and if it works den u can make somtin more of it
2006-10-29 11:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obvioulsy have a lot of living today and alot of growing up.
Leave the guy alone and youd be wise to take his advice.
2006-10-29 10:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by pixilated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋