2006-10-29 02:48:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should make ur question a bit more clear, did you already cheat on him or is that what he is suspicious of? Does he have a reason or is he just super jealous?--I have been in the same boat if it just that he thinks you're doing stuff, my bf always thought I was checking out dudes all the time...I would be lost in thought or whatever or not even paying attention to things and he would be like "you were looking at that guy" he would say all kinds of off the wall and untrue things he was imagining, we struggled with this for a long time. Finally I got pissed at him several times, I really had to (calmly) explain to him that I was not checking dudes out and his level of distrust was pushing me away, I told him I could not handle what he was doing to me, he would ruin perfectly good days for no reason and make me feel like crap. I had to go over this with him 4 or 5 times...the last time Igave him an ultimatum. The only reason I satyed is bec i loved him and realized HE had low self esteem, what I also found out is that in thiese situations, reassuring my love for him did a lot more than getting pissed/mad denying stuff(even though it wasn't true). So now it has been a couple of years and he does not even act like that at all, so things can change. If you love him, try to make him understand what this suspicion is doing to your relationship. I know this is a long answer but I went through the same thing & feel strongly about this experience/situation. If you did cheat on him or whatever then thats another story...hope this helped.
2006-10-29 03:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by KatieJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be concerned approximately the truth that he had a social gathering. I'd be concerned approximately the truth that he naturally handiest did it even as you have been long gone and in an rental of that is in YOUR identify. In different phrases, it is not his situation and if some thing severe went down, you would be accountable. I'd be pissed approximately that for definite. Secondly, the truth that he lied approximately what number of individuals have been over could make me suspicious. Not always that he was once outright dishonest, simply that he was once a liar. Second factor to be pissed approximately. Thirdly, if he are not able to provide an instantaneous "no", i might be suspicious. Guy who do not cheat don't have anything to cover and can let you know no. Guys who do have whatever to cover however are ashamed of it, will do all however let you know no outright seeing that they realize it'd be mendacity. Can't see why you're detached approximately it. I'd be mad as hell.
2016-09-01 04:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very simple..u take what you deserve until he dumps you for another girl that he can trust or you come clean and grow up.If hes aware that you cheated and he s still with you it sounds like you ve got a guy who really loves you.You screwed up not him.
2006-10-29 02:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very little to none if your not cheating , the cheater is usually the accuser !
2006-10-29 02:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what does he say you do to make him think you are cheating?
2006-10-29 02:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALOT. Thats What You get, h0e.
2006-10-29 02:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋