I got this friend hu takes the bus with me rite. she's alrite, a nice girl and all but i don't like her in that way, just want to be her friend. I sit with her on the bus sometimes and talk to her during school. latley she's offered to help me with my work and that and i'm just wandering if i'm giving the wrong impression by spending this much time with her. also her birthday is coming up soon and since i am noo good with gifts i came here. wanted something that is nice, but doesn't give the wrong impression that i like her . . .
p.s. she's like 12-13 and i'm lik 17 so bit of an age diff, thats y i dun like her as such, if that's wat ur thinking. it's wierd and i'd get bagged out as a pedo so i mite just avoid that for another year or so . . . anyway any advice on my situation?
2006-10-29 00:14:47 · 9 answers · asked by flaming_ichigo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away can be harmful to your adult life as well as her future.
2006-10-29 00:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by mrsdg01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might need to cut back on the times you sit next to her on the bus. Talk to her briefly in school, just enough to say "Hi" and don't prolong the conversation. If you give her a gift for her birthday, she will, because of her age, get the impression that you like her in a different way than you do now. Also, let her know that you care for her only as a friend. You are getting way too close to 18 for people to think you are involved with a child her age! Be very careful. Some girls her age can blow things way out of proportion. I'm not suggesting you be mean to her, just be cautious. Good luck!
2006-10-29 07:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your treading on dangerous ground. Even though your intentions are not bad, if anyone gets the impression, or someone starts a rumor, you could have your nuts in a sling. Don't sit with her, sit near her. The best thing you could do is talk to her and ask her what she thinks is going on, then if she's mistaken, tell her she is. Nicely of course she can't help how she feels.
2006-10-29 07:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aiyooohhhh. So cute. Hahaha. Ok, you cud maybe get her a book and a card for her birthday if you want to get her something. Otherwise, you should say things like - she's the little sister you've always wanted or tell her about a girl that you like in school.... Maybe that will keep the records straight between both of you.
2006-10-29 07:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off from her...she's a baby and you're nearly a legal adult...the age difference is too great in this situation and she's likely just got a crush on you. Smile and be kind to her when you see her, but don't encourage spending time together or anything like that.
2006-10-29 07:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. But I can see a problem there. If you do get involved intimately, you could possibly be charged with statutory rape since she's jailbait, and get her pregnant. Yes it's wrong for you to give her a wrong impression. Just tell her you just want to be friends, and that's all. No misintended mixed signals there. Good luck.
2006-10-29 07:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be pretty blunt, I'd stand down on this one. You guys are in way different places emotionally. You're the older guy and she probaly/definitely has a crush on you. Back down considerably.
2006-10-29 07:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be polite say hello and try not to sit next to her and hopefully her little girl crush will fade. there is no need to say anything. as for her birthday , wish her happy birthday. there is no need for a gift..
2006-10-29 07:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh
2006-10-29 07:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by bramarock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋