There is a guy friend of mine who use to be my best girls man who has intense feelings for me and I cant say the feeling is not mutual there is so much chemistry between us but the odds are great, besides him being my girls ex he's got another girl aswell my sister who is closer to him than I am refuses to hear of us too. When ever we are together we always end up in contact we have never kissed when I say in contact I mean close the feelings are so intense that he came over to my house at midnight, he didn't say or do anything just asked me to hold him, every conversattion we have ends up being about us he once said one day we will end up together he insists that I give us a chance but I cant mainly because of my best friend but I think I love him like deeply because when he calls I get butterflys in my tummy my man started asking questions so now I think I should get over him cause there is no way we can be together too many people will get hurt..
2006-10-29 00:13:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in love! If all this is taking place, then you need to stand up and be counted, before he is gone with someone else. I'm a guy, but I too have had this problem, and I have never gotten over her, and I won't as long as I live. What I would give for just one day with her! My heart breaks everytime I think of her, and thats usually about 47 times a day. Go after what you want and need. Do it now, before it's too late. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-29 00:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right. GET OVER HIM. Sounds like he is a player. He may be a good freind, but sometimes people can be a player and not mean to hurt others, it is just their nature. BE CAREFUL. You and everyone else could lose alot. Sounds like this guy holds all the cards.
2006-10-29 07:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta ask yourself wich is more important,ur man or the person u know and love well.think of urself b4 ne thing and wich person u can c urself with. if u think ur gonna hurt ppl tell tem how u feel even if they hate u 4 it.its better to live with the truth(even though we all noe its imppossible 2 do that 4ever!)than life with guilt
2006-10-29 07:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a rule i never date the ex of any of my friends. and if you wish to keep your friend as a friend you need to get over this guy and just move on. If he was the greatest love of your life you would not be questioning it. so that being said. take your girlfriend out and talk about everything else but him..
2006-10-29 07:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you answered your own question. You are in a relationship, and he's in a relationship. You'd be foolish not to get over him...unless you're just masochistic that way.
2006-10-29 07:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the sacred code of don't touch my ex.
If too many people would get hurt, I wouldn't do it. If no one cares, go for it. If you really care for him, go for it either way. Others will get over it.
2006-10-29 07:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YA YA GOT A POINT THERE MIGHT BE SOME HURT FEELINGS SO JUST LAYLOW AND BEHAIVE YOURE SELF.
2006-10-29 07:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes before you all get hurt.
2006-10-29 07:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course
2006-10-29 07:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably gay, maybe needy too - send him to his mama or rehab!
2006-10-29 07:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by spliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋