I know that he loves me, he puts up with my crap...well my families crap, but he never shows me... he has never taken me out on a date...we have been together for 7 yrs. I always have to set up the dates... we have 4 kids all together, we are both very tired by the end of the day, but ... he doesnt even like to give me a peck on the lips... in fear that some one is lookin.. not just our kids but our friends, too. I cant remember the last time we help each other as we fall to sleep, I dont think that he likes me very much and its really starting to hurt... I mean deply hurt..... there are a lot of other things that are a long the some lines but I dont want to get into them be fore bed... but is there something wrong with me... or is there another woman?? or is there something else that Im missing..... PLS HELP...
2006-10-29 18:52:10 · 3 answers · asked by TamBam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I CANT CHOOSE THE BEST ANSWER BETWEEN THE 3, THEY ARE ALL GREAT ANSWERS. AS FAR AS THE 1ST ONE GOES... I AM GOING TO START WATCHING MYSELF A LITTLE CLOSER, TO SEE IF I AM OVER LOOKING A FEW THINGS. AND IF SO, MAKE THE CHANGES THAT NEED TO BE MADE.. BUT IF THERE ISNT ANY CHANGE ON HIS END... IM GOING TO LOOSE IT!!!
TY ALL FOR YOUR ANSWERS
2006-11-01 06:24:17 · update #1
People have different ways of showing love. He may not be as phsyical as you wish he was. You should talk to him and ask him about it. He'll probably say the little things you may even take for granted are his ways of showing love. Seek counselling if you can't get over this. Don't accuse him of cheating until you know. Accusing a lover of cheating when they are not might drive them to it. Good luck!
2006-10-29 19:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a great dinner by candle lite.. and when all is going well bring up the topic yourself.
tell him , Honey i know you love me and I love you but i was thinking about putting a little excitement to the relationship... then tell him all the things you would like to do.. not only sexually but tell him all the little things that make you feel special like the old saying " ain't nobody happy unless momma is happy"
maybe he will "get the picture" when you lay it out on the table... NEVER bring up sexual stuff when your in bed. Talk about your needs over dinner or someplace away from the bedroom, we seem to remember the conversation better that way. Hope this helps.
2006-10-30 07:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi ! I recently told my hubby(By email) that I am tired of lookin after my 5 kids alone while he is overseas workin and have time out for himself.Wehave been together for 8 years and I m starting to feel that I am being taken for granted most of time.) We almost have the same problems) I m sorry , I am supposed to give you advice ..anyway Hubby is NOT please after reading me email . So my dear .some MEN are difficult !Now I 'm trying to find space for myself to do the things that makes me happy and feel beautiful.
2006-10-30 04:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by HeineGal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋