My sister in law “my wife sister “, Is super nice to me, she always give me flirting signals that I can’t understand.
She confesses to my wife that she loves me and she will do anything to me. She is hot and I wasn’t recognizing her I am 30 and she is 25. I love my wife but I still have this idea of having more sexy female around me.
I can’t resist the idea that she loves me. I feel really happy when I talk to her. FYI she calls me ones in a while just to say hi and without telling her sister.
Is that considered cheating or what?
2006-10-29 18:51:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Cheating is different for different people. If you are asking this question I woud evaluated your relationship. Cheating is acting on a desire. If you are thinking about it there is a reason. Explore the reason why you are feeling this way!
2006-10-29 18:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jersey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talking and a little flirting isn't cheating but, if you really love your wife, you won't do anything as terrible as cheat on her with her sister. Think about how you would feel if your wife cheated on you with one of your family members maybe a brother or your father! It would hurt her more than if you simply cheated on her with a stranger. She'd lose trust in you as well as in her family. It would be devastating.
Some women have a flirty attitude about them. It doesn't mean that much but, if you believe that your wifes sister is trying to cheat with you, you're going to have to cool down your relationship with her. Tell her that you are not sure of what she wants out of this because you are fully commited to your wife and would never do anything to hurt her. Having thoughts about other women isn't so much cheating as it is temptation to cheat. It's a warning sign. Why aren't you as attracted to your wife? Has your sex life become boring? Try and spice things up in the bedroom. Work on your relationship with your wife. You married her not her sister!
2006-10-30 02:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thinking about stuff you shouldn't be! So yes! When you start thinking thoughts like this, your only a few steps away from actually cheating. You need to tell her your not interested so she will leave you alone. Your married and out of respect for your wife you should do this. If you really love your wife, then you need to think of the future of losing her if you choice the wrong path.
2006-10-30 02:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is!!!!!!! Your entertaining the thought of being with your wife's sister....You don't deserve either one and your wife's sister obviously is selfish and insecure because she's flirting with you and disrespecting the marriage. You are going to get everything you deserve..........smarten up now and stop letting the sister do what she wants. Love your wife and maybe you'll be lucky enough to still be married 50 years from now.
2006-10-30 02:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the type of husband that make wives nervous and suspicious and then blame the woman for being moody, etc. you deserve to lose your wife and join up with the flirty sister who will probably leave your sorry *** once she has had a a taste of you. you do not love your wife. otherwise you would not be asking us this question. love involves fidelity. i hope that your wife and her sister are setting you up.
2006-10-30 03:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Gina N 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are always fun as long as they stay that. In my eyes it's not cheating until you act on it. If your wife finds out however, I'm sure it will be considered that.
2006-10-30 03:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kit Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your wife about the calls and let her know. The sister-n-law could ruin your marriage.
2006-10-30 02:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by any1on 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you do things behind your wife's back and feel guilty about doing it; when you know it's wrong and that she'll be upset if she finds out, then it is cheating.
Stop this dance, because sooner or later someone's gonna fall.
2006-10-30 03:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by g Myzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well thats nice isnt it? Marry someone and fall in love with her sister. Maybe you should move on from your wife, after all, she doen't need people like you in hers.
2006-10-30 03:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by silva_coin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound good. You need to tell your sister-in-law to stop. And you need to ignore her behavior! If you do love your wife you will put an end to this now!
2006-10-30 02:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by CorinneI 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋