i got attracted to a man since he was not married and he too was showing his int through his eyes without speaking to me. For long we never talked to each other but used to see or meet somewhere coz we had some common friends. When i thought that he is shy guy so started with saying 'hi' without knowing my husband. I was badly attracted to him which made me to take 1st step. Now whenever we meet somewhere in social gathering he shows me to his wife from far which makes me feeling very insecure. He may tell about it to other people and disrupt my family life.
2006-10-29 18:58:33 · 6 answers · asked by simran s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't be so nervous.
move on boldly as he is also busy with his life.
2006-10-29 19:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are undoubtedly crazy. The there is no love for you in this man
but because you may have some misunderstanding with your husband you need not be attracted to other people. Save your self and have good Karmas. You on the face of it have done no wrong if you just said Hi. But if you have gone further than that and had any intimacy with this man then you surely will feel insecure. Otherwise you are free
2006-10-29 19:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that line from 'Silence of the Lambs', "What do we covet, Clarice? That which we see every day." One assumes you "taking the first step" meant indicating you wanted to have a relationship with this person. And that he did not respond the way you wanted. You've already cheated in your heart. Work on why you have so little respect for your husband to decide to take the first step with another guy and not let your husband know about it. The disruption of family life is exactly what cheaters deserve - for starters.
2016-05-22 06:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE 2 people married to other people have the choice to resist all of those attractions ,the fact that your married to your husband should be the only reason you need to LEAVE THE MAN ALONE FOR THE MARRIAGE SAKE.ITS LUST NOT LOVE .
2006-10-29 19:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serves you right!Maybe this experience taught ou a lesson.He's a faithful hubby,God bless him.I don't think he can do much damage by telling everyone you say hi to him.
2006-10-29 19:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you get enough material from marriage to learn more about family dignity? move in a wrong way and it may cause you more... be careful.
2006-10-29 19:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋