I've being having a fling with this guy for approx 2 yrs and over this time i have gotten to know him extremly well,I know that i have very strong feelings for him however I am not blinded by it as i am very well aware that he is a big liar & that he cheats big time. My conflict is that he has now become available as he left his wife & in a way i want to let him know how I feel but I'm so scared of being hurt and at the same time i cant keep this inside any longer. So in short do I want him or not???? i'm so confused because i do love him & being with him makes me so happy but i just cant trust him.
2006-10-29 19:06:44 · 12 answers · asked by maz78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't be with him if you cant see yourself with him having kids and having a life together forever than obviously hes not the one for you.How can you love someone that has cheated and lied on you,do you not care about yourself? If he cheated on his wife with you hes more likely to cheat on you too.
2006-10-29 19:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I think that when you actually tell someone that you love them and things doesn't work out it hurts much more. I think that you should keep it quiet until he says it first. Until then just show him that you care for his well being. Its also harder to let go and as you said before he is not the one for you and you know so.So why put so much into it. Might I also remind you a fling goes for a season not two years. You guys are then into a relationship so know where you are stepping.
2006-10-30 03:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should walk away on this one. If you like big risks and you think he can be trusted and would do anything for you including premartial counciling than I would say look into it. But, my gut says you are asking for huge trouble. Would you trust a drug addict in your house alone? Point being. Unless they go through therapy, want to change have proven a postive track record walk away.
2006-10-30 03:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Robert Miller 95670 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on his wife with you he will cheat on you with another it is as simple as that, if you know that he is a big liar why would you want him in the first place? you deserve someone that will make you happy and you need someone that you can trust if you have no trust you have nothing
2006-10-30 03:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that we all have emotions and that we all need to protect our heart. Nothing wrong there, However, I have been working on getting out of an 8 yr. relationship, and if it's not right, it's not right.
2006-10-30 03:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know he's a cheater because he was doing it with you WHILE HE WAS MARRIED. Do you want a guarantee that he'll be true to only you if you two get legit?
Do you hear me laughing?
2006-10-30 03:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he would leave his wife and cheat on her. he would do you the same way in time . better to speak your mind now to him rather than later after all that is your right.my opion?
2006-10-30 03:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no defiantly not if he is a liar & a cheat sorry if this has afended u but believe me its true u shouldnt
2006-10-30 03:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by karate one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have 2 tell when u know that he is not meant for you.
2006-10-30 03:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do play with your life. If he is not for you , then He is not!!!!
Are you dumb not to understand your guts?
P.S. How is it possible for you Ladies to Fall for the sumb of the earth?
2006-10-30 03:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋