Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

my husband and i do the same thing every friday night, dinner and drinks or a movie , what else is there i'm going nuckingfux, my husband has had a affair and i feel sad and sick that i'm not exciting anymore..

2006-10-27 05:09:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance' has custody of his two kids, a home, a job, three dogs and all the responsiblities for taking care of everyone and everything. He doesn't have much time for me. His kids are always with him (their mother rarely sees them) and he doesn't feel comfortable getting a babysitter. His children constantly interupt us when we are in a private conversation or behind closed doors. They are old enough to fend for themselves, but constantly demand their dad's attention. It's been three weeks now since we have had any time alone (going out to dinner, etc) and I find out that tonight will be no different. The kids mom "still has the flu". Not sure if that's a cop-out or if it's really true. Happens too often. What should I do? Any suggestions?

2006-10-27 05:09:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 05:08:28 · 25 answers · asked by danutzza d 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom-in-law as told by husband is very nice at heart. We lived with her for couple months and sometimes she seemed very nice and sometimes not a very pleasant person. My husband understands it but he has an explanation that circumstances were different. It just seems to me that she has a hard time letting her son go. I dont know what to do. I tried talking to my husband about it. He seems like he understands but I dont see anything change in her behavior. She calls everyday 2 or sometimes even 3 times. I feel like I am married to my husband and her. He talks to her everyday and for some reasons it bothers me because I thought any mom-in-law would understand newly weds and give them some time for themselves. She HAS to call early in the morning and then late at night. We both are working and the only time we get is mornings and evenings and once this call comes I get ticked off. I dont want her to stop calling but atleast not 2 or 3 times a day and discuss every damn thing.

2006-10-27 05:07:46 · 7 answers · asked by Jean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex b-day is coming soon, i m thinking if i should just send a text/ email or post a card to him..all my friends telling me not to do that as they are worried that any connection with him again will make me down again...as i m just kind of recover from that upset breakup....

2006-10-27 05:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I share hobbies and cross paths often due to meetings and group activities; a civil breakup for the sake of our shared friends and interests has degraded and is now becoming acrimonious. I'm leaving details out to avoid bias.

I'm looking for suggestions that will try to avoid one of us having to leave our hobbyist community; we're both fairly involved and are local group officers, so continued strife will mean gossip, drama and hassles in a public forum.

2006-10-27 05:05:52 · 9 answers · asked by drumrb0y 5 in Friends

ok so i have liked this girl for about three weeks now and the first time i tryd to talk to her she told me no she dosent call boys!!! so a cupple of days latter i told her she hurt my feelings and it workd she came an sat down with me and we talkd and she gave me her number and told me too call so i did and we ben talkin for like to weeks! i got sick and i askd her to cumm over and take care of me and she did, while she was over wwe kissed for like three hours then wen my sister came home we took her home! but last night she called and said we need to talk and she told me we wer moving to fast and that she wanted to slow down an just be friends i was like ok but it hurt just a lil bit!! so i gess i am supposed to wait for her to realize her true hero lol! but i dont no how to wait an i supposed to act like a bf or an i suppsoe to give her space or what iom confused!!!

2006-10-27 05:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by brandy baby 2 in Singles & Dating

He's kinda shy, but doesn't attempt to give a crap. I like him a lot... what should i do? i don't want to break up with him.... He tlkes to this one girl more than me even when i am around both of them. he ignores me....

2006-10-27 05:05:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 21 and I want to be married and have kids NOW! In my opinion this is the only thing worth living for. My boyfriend thinks he’s too young to get married ( and he is, 21) but I am ready and I want to marry him. Is this normal? I get so jealous whenever someone tells me they are getting married or are going to have a baby! This cant be normal. HELP ME!

2006-10-27 05:04:59 · 22 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

would you date a guy that wears a tux and he carry with him a japanese sword???

2006-10-27 05:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the five primary things you ladies prefer when looking for a boyfrend?

2006-10-27 05:04:36 · 16 answers · asked by spatz 3 in Singles & Dating

has been talking about suicide,again,wedding is next month and he hasn't even let us know if he can come, we are willing to rent his tux etc., give him gas $, did i mention he is almost 50???? I am so sick of him i just want to say stay away, my hub to be is fine, infact more than fine with that, i am sick of him, he is not what i call best man material...should we just tell him to stay home?...we have been supporting him $ for way too long, it never stops and now all he is doing is making us think more about him than the day we have planned for over 2 years, is it okay to tell him to stay home?

2006-10-27 05:03:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

.........any one have a threesome scheduled in - for real?

2006-10-27 05:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

It's a fine boy that goes to my school and I like him, but my best friend like him too! What to do? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-27 05:02:52 · 11 answers · asked by jasmine_williams_101_11 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 05:02:11 · 7 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Singles & Dating

Like its weird...i cant do anything without him. He has to know everything i do in a day yet he doesn't fill me in about what he does. I don't know. Don't get me wrong he can't be really sweet but thats only when he gets his own way.PPl tell me maybe he's cheating on me and he thinks im doing the same. what do yous think?

2006-10-27 05:01:25 · 26 answers · asked by gnuhbaby54 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 05:00:19 · 6 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Singles & Dating

It's a fine boy that goes to my school and I like him, but my best friend like him too! What to do? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-27 05:00:09 · 12 answers · asked by jasmine_williams_101_11 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a first year university student and a guy I met recently has started asking me out. He's a really sweet guy, but he is 22 and I'm still 17. He's 2nd year law so he's definitely smart and wouldn't take advantage or anything...but most of my friends think the age difference is still too extreme...is it?

2006-10-27 04:59:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok at the start of September i went to a party got drunk and made out with this guy from work...i no longer work there as I have moved on to a different job...me and the guy talked a few weeks after that and went out once and kissed a few more times at work...we didnt let anyone know that we were talking and at the end of September I went out again and got a bit messed up and called him yelling "I dont want to talk to you anymore" well after that he still called me and texted me and still does and he says that he misses seeing me and talking to me...what I dont know is should I talk to him or just be like leave me alone? I think I like him I just let other peoples opinions get in the way ok so he isnt the best looking guy but hes alright looking and hes really nice...oh and he has a kid that is also kinda a negative for me plus hes a few years older like 6 but we are both in our 20's....sooooo should I give him that 2nd chance?...

2006-10-27 04:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Monica H 1 in Singles & Dating

an you had sex 6 times during the night . then you found out the guys had been swapping during that time would you be peed off

2006-10-27 04:58:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need something to engrave on my husband's wedding band...It has to be short, yet unique & romantic. Please help!

2006-10-27 04:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by surprise 1 in Weddings

should i ask her on a date?

2006-10-27 04:58:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I trace a childhood friend (purely to see what has happened to her over the years!) I knew her at primary school....she moved to another part of the country (but did not tell me where!) I know her full name: Barbara Jean Hislop (could be Hyslop...we were only 10!) born May 1953. Any ideas? (not F/R!)

2006-10-27 04:57:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've just come out of a 7 year relationship with an older woman and want to play the field but i've become lazy and set in my way's and forgot what women want. I'm not bad in the sack and good looking.When i was with my ex girl girls were always making moves on me now i'm single no girl wants to know ?

2006-10-27 04:57:17 · 19 answers · asked by Alex aka 1 1 in Singles & Dating

This sucks!!!! please read this???
my boyfriend told me yesterday that he liked me more as a friend..... i took it as he was braking up with me ..... and now he really wants to work things out!! i am mad!!! why are some people even like that ... i accepted the offer >>>> am i stupid or what?? not only that but he just kept on i don't want to lose you .......ect.... i **** up ect...... can we please work things out.... then he said he felt better because he took alot off his chest??? ok guys should i just like fo bck on the offer or what??? or should i try to talk things out???? i mean if it was like that he shouldn't have ever ask me out brake up with me and then thirty minutes later texting and called me to concvince me??? i mean y does he want me as his girl to hurt me or what????

2006-10-27 04:56:28 · 26 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-27 04:56:24 · 17 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Singles & Dating

I was married for 9 years and I cannot have kids due to uterine cancer. My husband and I were happy-or so I thought. He works construction and the last job lasted for 7 weeks. He went on the job to make money to pay for land and a new house we had purchased together. We had so many plans and talked every day while he was away and he told me how much he loved me and could not wait to move in our new house. Then 5 days before he came home he started acting funny on the phone and starting fights. He came home and told me he had been dating another woman for 5 weeks while he was away and that she makes him feel alive and passionate. He says that he loves me but is not in love with me but was gonna stay and move into the new house if he had not met her. I do not believe he was not happy or in love cause everything seemed so ideal. What do you think?

2006-10-27 04:55:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

November 1st,is our anniversary of 3 years together,he left me cuz i made him feel as he was in a prison,i dont wanna be back to him cuz i'm sick from problems and daily fightings,how can i forget him?
Thanks

2006-10-27 04:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend is constantly touching my rear end, and not just with her hands. I was wondering if other women do this to their boyfriends?

2006-10-27 04:55:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating