Ok at the start of September i went to a party got drunk and made out with this guy from work...i no longer work there as I have moved on to a different job...me and the guy talked a few weeks after that and went out once and kissed a few more times at work...we didnt let anyone know that we were talking and at the end of September I went out again and got a bit messed up and called him yelling "I dont want to talk to you anymore" well after that he still called me and texted me and still does and he says that he misses seeing me and talking to me...what I dont know is should I talk to him or just be like leave me alone? I think I like him I just let other peoples opinions get in the way ok so he isnt the best looking guy but hes alright looking and hes really nice...oh and he has a kid that is also kinda a negative for me plus hes a few years older like 6 but we are both in our 20's....sooooo should I give him that 2nd chance?...
2006-10-27 04:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Monica H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TALK TO HIM ABOUT YOU JUST CAN'T IGNORE HIM, HE MIGHT BE REALLY IN LOVE WITH YOU DEEPLY, SO I THINK YOU TWO SHOULD TALK ABOUT OK.
2006-10-27 05:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way you have written this letter I believe you are a way to immature for any relationship, I will quote your word back
got drunk and made out
move on to new job
went out again and got a bit messed up
I think I like him
I just let other peoples opinions get in the way
he has a kid
plus he is a few years older than me
My question is Why are you even in this relationship?
2006-10-27 12:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is a concideration; however, not in your case. what concerns me is that you actually think he cares about you. seems young girls keep getting dummer and dummer every year. The first encounter should not have taken place; and you go back for more. Lay down the law, tell him you want nothing to do with him before you get hurt. Just by reading your question you can see what he wants. an old pair of shoes are very confortable to wear but never good enough to wear out on the town. think about it.
2006-10-27 12:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go with your instincts.....dont ever ever ever let anyones opinion hold you back form doing anything your gut is telling you to go for...they wont be dating him, you will...so why let them pick your partner????????? the kid situation...well im in a relationship for about 4 1/2 yrs now....he has a child, but it wasnt planned...they actually made plans to abort and she disappeared that day...so she screwed him,,,,,he was about 17 at the time,,,so no where near ready to be a father....it may not be that mans choice to have that child so you cant hold it against him, plus a child should not come in between you possibly being with him,,,that is past stuff, and children are a beautiful thing to experience and have....if it bothers you that much than i say dont consider it,,,but under no circustances should you let anyone lse do your decision making for you!...good luck!
2006-10-27 12:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really do like him....you should do what your heart tells you to do....he obviously likes you so give him a second chance....did he ever do anything to you?? if you let other peopel live your life for you...you will NEVER be happy!good luck!
2006-10-27 12:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy enough to not give him any chance. Move on.
2006-10-27 12:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kid could be a problem the age is not a problem..
Other than that, if you like him....Date him....
2006-10-27 12:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should pursew it any further,atleast not in a relationship. Maybe you should be friends and see how it goes.
2006-10-27 12:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two like each other, you should give yourselves another chance.
2006-10-27 12:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by BABY BOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋