Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

She's my classmate for 6 years. but she started talking to me only last year. I really like her. but in my past i had no friends at all though i used to be pretty much the same and get good grades in my exams. so i built up an imaginary friend circle. no one knows about this even my mom. this girl actually became my friend only because we enjoyed the same stuff. In the start of our friendship, i told her everything about this friend circle except that its imaginary. Now she wants to meet them. She is not a very good friend. In fact to say in her words, i am her 4th or 5th preference but i always hang out with her. I know she'll ditch me if she knew the truth. Must I say her? If yes, how do I cope up the situation? Its very hard for me to get another friend coz she's popular and may influence others from not becoming my friend. Most important, is she behaving like a true friend? she has always behaved with me kinda friendly.

2006-10-27 05:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I are in our late 20's. We've been together for two years. We've had our own place, and his parents have visited for weeks at a time, seeing us share a home and bedroom. We're going to visit them for the first time, and they are making us sleep in separate bedrooms because we aren't married.

I feel that they're pulling the, 'our house, our rules' line as though we are children who must have rules enforced to show us who is boss in whose house, and this makes me very uncomfortable as I have been a self-sufficent adult for a very long time now.

My bf just caves.

We can't afford a hotel nearby, so I am thinking that I will not go visit this time, and send my bf on his own.

Any other adult suggestions for how to react?

2006-10-27 05:34:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, I like these two girls in my class, but the problem is they are friends, so I can't try and talk to both of them.

But I don't know which one to choose.

The one is kinda short, cute, sexy and she's into her school work.

The other one is a little thicker, cute, more sexual looking, and she has this I-dont-give-a-f*ck kinda attitude. And very sexy lips.

Which one should I try to holla at?

2006-10-27 05:34:47 · 5 answers · asked by Samuel 1 in Singles & Dating

They say gay men have a thing called "gay-dar", where they can look at another guy and tell if he is gay.....so why dont we get ho-dar? Where we can just look at a hottie, and know if she is a dirty ho that will put out for us? That way we dont have to waste our "A game" on chicks that wont give it up anyways...and we can go right towards the guaranteed lay!!! Whos with me?

2006-10-27 05:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 05:33:09 · 6 answers · asked by wolfball 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 05:32:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

???

2006-10-27 05:32:41 · 14 answers · asked by lookgood2006 c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, well almost... on November 4th. For our highschool graduation I got him a watch, but "somehow" it turned up missing, and we can't seem to find it. Anyway, he's been hinting that he wants me to get him another one. His birthday was October 10th, and to make him think that I'm not going to get him another watch I got him a money clip. Anyway, for our anniversary I got him this really neat watch, you can lift up the face and it's kind of like a locket (which I will most likely put a picture of us in), and IT IS a mens watch. Anyway, my question is to the guys mainly... would you like it if your girlfriend got you something like this??? If you plan on answereing try checking out this link 1st!

http://www.thingsremembered.com/webapp/w...

And also, please make sure you veiw it larger to get a good look!

2006-10-27 05:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My partner is of the opinion it's all my fault when she doesn't have one.I say if she's not doing her part mentally and physically it doesn't matter what I do it ain't happening.

2006-10-27 05:30:54 · 16 answers · asked by chuckwilmoth@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

we have finally seperated and now he wants custody of the children, I will not let him see the children because he is currently on probation for possession of methamphetamins, and he was suppose to take drug classes, and he got kicked out of them because he would not go. We lost our children to CPS for drug usage 2 yrs ago, and I have only had them back for a year this month. I have been clean since this started. what should I do??? real scared. please help

2006-10-27 05:30:51 · 21 answers · asked by JANET 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 05:30:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and you haven't seen him in like 5weeks and you start to like another person what do you do bu you know he's not cheating on you what do you so?

2006-10-27 05:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’ve heard that if you are worried that your spouse will cheat on you that you create it. Do you agree ?
Say you were a person that wasn’t going to cheat but had a spouse that was very suspicious about it would that cause you to cheat ? Has anyone cheated purely for that reason ?

2006-10-27 05:30:05 · 11 answers · asked by JustMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not married, but i've often wondered about that when I hear about situations where one has cheated, and then the spouse ends up contracting something from them. I'm not saying it should be done, but i'm just asking do people do this? Is it disrespectful to even consider such a thing? In a perfect world, you wouldn't have to, but everyone is human.....

2006-10-27 05:29:36 · 14 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14 and I'm meeting up with my boyfriend on Saturday but at the moment we have only kissed and I want to maybe take it a step further. I don't know where to do this and how to give him the idea that I want to go further. Where can we go and what can we do. I dont want to have sex or anything like that i just want to go a bit further than a kiss. Please help lauren xxx

2006-10-27 05:29:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 05:28:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 05:28:39 · 4 answers · asked by Marie L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mother thinks he's *trying* to get better...

I cannot convince them of how SERIOUS i am about reporting my car as stolen to the police...

please advise

2006-10-27 05:28:27 · 6 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I just starting talking to this girl and i dont know wat to talk about(i like her but i want to be good friends before asking her out)

2006-10-27 05:27:49 · 7 answers · asked by Samuel C 1 in Singles & Dating

We are just trying to keep things good in the bedroom, we have been married for 33 yrs, my husband has gained weight in his belly, most positions are imposible. Please help. Thanks

2006-10-27 05:27:18 · 11 answers · asked by mollydials24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my X are filening for divorce......we filled out the paperwork ourself since we don't want anything from each other and we don't ave any kids together we were only married for about a year i think, so how soon after we turn the paperwork in will we be devorced i really need to be divorced soon i'm about to have my baby from my new partner and i would really like to be divorced before my baby comes ...

2006-10-27 05:27:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 05:27:07 · 8 answers · asked by tom&I 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-27 05:26:37 · 7 answers · asked by Jerome 2 in Singles & Dating

hey ya all!
well, I got to know this girl at this occassion. she is a Vball player and shes like 5'10". I kinda interested in her but I am only 5'11"...

ladies and lads, what u guys think? would i be short for her or if we walk on the stree would it seem wired....
lol
thanks for the answers

2006-10-27 05:26:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was just curious as to how many people believe in it.

2006-10-27 05:25:15 · 21 answers · asked by Hannah 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have liked this girl for about three weeks now and the first time i tryd to talk to her she told me no she dosent call boys!!! so a cupple of days latter i told her she hurt my feelings and it workd she came an sat down with me and we talkd and she gave me her number and told me too call so i did and we ben talkin for like to weeks! i got sick and i askd her to cumm over and take care of me and she did, while she was over wwe kissed for like three hours then wen my sister came home we took her home! but last night she called and said we need to talk and she told me we wer moving to fast and that she wanted to slow down an just be friends i was like ok but it hurt just a lil bit!! so i gess i am supposed to wait for her to realize her true hero lol! but i dont no how to wait an i supposed to act like a bf or an i suppsoe to give her space or what im confused!!!

2006-10-27 05:24:15 · 22 answers · asked by brandy baby 2 in Singles & Dating

He says that he wants me only, but I'm not convinced. His car is in the shop, but then when it gets out, he is planning to stay in the state he's in & get a job instead of joining us where we moved after the seperation. Now I find out that he (he says he was only "venting") called & has her coming over a woman that he had a brief affair with about a year & half ago...I'm devestated...what to do??? 15 yrs of marriage this june...he has my two boys w/him...I have the girls...please help.

2006-10-27 05:24:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

live a life full of love? or a life full of sex?

2006-10-27 05:24:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Trouble with law. Lived in Rockwood now lives in Confluenc. Someone put something on the internet about them but mostly about Ashley. I was told it was seven pages long. Some things were untrue. Can this person be identified that did this? If so who?

2006-10-27 05:22:47 · 1 answers · asked by Retter Ran 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he wont wake up
hes grumpy
he keeps changing rooms and falling asleep again- he fell asleep i nthe bathroom fer chrisakes!
and no i dont have time to blow him first thing in the AM
i have kids

2006-10-27 05:22:17 · 12 answers · asked by justsomedumbgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce