ok so i have liked this girl for about three weeks now and the first time i tryd to talk to her she told me no she dosent call boys!!! so a cupple of days latter i told her she hurt my feelings and it workd she came an sat down with me and we talkd and she gave me her number and told me too call so i did and we ben talkin for like to weeks! i got sick and i askd her to cumm over and take care of me and she did, while she was over wwe kissed for like three hours then wen my sister came home we took her home! but last night she called and said we need to talk and she told me we wer moving to fast and that she wanted to slow down an just be friends i was like ok but it hurt just a lil bit!! so i gess i am supposed to wait for her to realize her true hero lol! but i dont no how to wait an i supposed to act like a bf or an i suppsoe to give her space or what iom confused!!!
2006-10-27 05:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by brandy baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mmm...sorry to hear about this..
I guess I can see why you are so confused....
Sometimes I think we all do things on the spur of the moment and because you guys are so young, anything can happen.
The fact that you both kissed for three hours is pretty normal and yet pretty intense and could have lead to something else.
I don't feel as though relationships are purely based on
kissing, touching etc.
The first part you did well - talking ...communication.10/10.
When I was really young, I guess it was fun to do all these things - it's part of growing up.
I found that I enjoyed kissing more when I was ovulating.......
and that's pretty normal and healthy...
I am not saying she dosn't like you, otherwise she wouldn't have been with you, but I would say that she is probably just going through the motions and probably experiencing hormonal shifts.
But then again, she may call you and change her mind,
give her some time.
She might have scared herself for being so bold!
Good luck!
2006-10-27 05:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. If she wants to take it down a notch and be friends first, then give her that benefit. Never rush a woman into being in a relationship with you. When she's ready, she'll let you know. Timing is different for alot of women, but you have to be patient. Continue being her friend for now and consantly remind her that you're still interested in her by calling, offering to hang out, give small gifts like flowers, etc. Just be a good friend to her. She'll realize how genuinely sweet and thoughful you are and might decide to finally give you a chance.
2006-10-27 12:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space and let her think...if you push you'll just hurt her. Often, relationships that take the longest to build are also much better and longer lasting. If it's meant to be, it will. Take your time....there's no need to be rushing into things. A three-hour makeout session for your first kiss is a bit fast, even from my perspective (and I'm a guy).
2006-10-27 12:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mad Tinkerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you probably wrote her a letter and she was so damn confused by your writing skills she figured she didn't need a dyslexic boyfriend. Second of all why would you kiss her if you were sick? Were yo utrying to infect her with your illness or what? I think maybe you were moving to fast, she obviouslly doesn't wanna feel tied down and it loks like that's what you are trying to do. Dont make her do anything she doesnt want to do!
2006-10-27 12:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a friend but not a boyfriend(for now) give her space and time to think and hope that everything turns out for the best.
2006-10-27 12:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by shan_997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel, maybe she ins't that into you. Good Luck with it all. Maybe she is just use to moving slow.
2006-10-27 12:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her tell her and maybe you are going to fsat just go a little bit slower
2006-10-27 12:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by HaNnAh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn how to spell, then i'll read it.
2006-10-27 12:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋