What are the five primary things you ladies prefer when looking for a boyfrend?
2006-10-27 05:04:36 · 16 answers · asked by spatz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is kinda hard I have never really thought of it but i'll give it a shot....
1~Personality! This is a must have.You have to stand out if not then odds are you won't get noticed. But it is also a tuffy because you want to act yourself not the way someone else wants you to.
2~Sence of humor! If a guy can't laugh then apparently he doesn't know how to have fun. This doesn't mean always be cracking jokes, just sometimes but always be smiling it takes less muscles to smile then it does to frown.
3~Adventurous! Don't be a stick in the mud, speaking of mud, be willing to take a truck out and get it hella stuck and not be afraid to get dirty trying to break it free. Crave adrenaline, want to sky dive, have no fear of death!
4~Loving! Just feel free to sit on the couch at night and hold me while watching a movie or tv, no need to even talk.
5~A Job. I didn't put an exclamation mark. This is not necessary just an idea of what they are going to do. Maybe they're in school. I want someone with a goal though and they plan and achieving it!!
I guess that wasn't that hard. Hope it was usefull for whatever you are doing.
2006-10-27 05:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest here's my top five:
1. Looks
2. Personality
3. Cleanliness/Manners
4. Must have job ( doesn't matter where )
5. Must have car ( that works )
2006-10-27 05:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) How I met them - did they stagger up to me at a bar? how did they approach me?
2) How they are dressed - if you look like you don't take care of yourself (showered & not stinky) then don't even bother
3) It's all about the eyes with me - I am a sucker for sincere eyes
4) There had to be a physical attraction
5) How you carry yourself - are you secure with yourself?
6) a great sense of humor
** and a cute butt doesn't hurt either!!!
2006-10-27 05:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boy who is dressed nice who is funny who likes to be his self and also me i aint all up for richness like if you not rich and you like me i wont say NO cause you aint rich cause alot of people i like aint rich but aint poore either in between rich and poore also someone whon is in to me and dont take me out and look at another women and say girl she is hot cause i have had people to do that to me and some of my friends i know that some types of girls and boys are preppy like me and that is all i have to tell you i tried this is my best advice and me of course you dont have to do much to impress me or many other people maybe a girl who is a skankey girl who is gonna use you or summin like that which i would not do
2006-10-27 05:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) mental compatibility-we can have interesting and stimulating conversations
2) same faith as me- cuts down on having to worry about moral issues- sex b4 marriage etc
3) physically attractive to me in some way-eyes mean alot to me, taller than me and average weight
4) understanding and compassionate but occasionally autocratic- i like the feeling that my guy is in control and I can just relax-protective and chivalrous goes here too i guess...
5) fun!!! good sense of humour and adventure- sees the ridiculous in things - even himself and realizes that the priorities in life arent always money and social status...
2006-10-27 05:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a happy medium between being confident and being humble.
must be a big boy that takes care of himself (we don't need another kid to take care of)
honesty really is the best policy (we HATE liars)
be able to keep up in a thought provoking conversation
last but not least, loyalty
2006-10-27 05:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) an honest person
2) attractive
3) confident
4) responsible (includes having a job and car)
5) good sense of humor
2006-10-27 05:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dasher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) Good personal hygiene
2.) Confidence
3.) Sense of humor
4.) Good relationship with his family
5.) Sincerity
2006-10-27 05:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by treasures320 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at personality, his appearance ( like the face, hair etc...) humor, dressed and most of all if I'm attracted to him
2006-10-27 05:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, Manners, Compasion, a little bit of sensitivity( not too much don't want him to be gay) and Generosity.
2006-10-27 05:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by dreamsjv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋