My ex b-day is coming soon, i m thinking if i should just send a text/ email or post a card to him..all my friends telling me not to do that as they are worried that any connection with him again will make me down again...as i m just kind of recover from that upset breakup....
2006-10-27 05:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, cuz i just think though we split finally, we did have some good time together...and it is part of my life and it happened...that's why i think i may send him a card ...
2006-10-27 05:25:26 · update #1
He is a ex for a reason do not start the communication again unless your looking to reconnect.If he is the one that ended it then for sure don't say happy b day because it will just make you look like your still chasing him like a puppy that gets kicked and comes crawling back
2006-10-27 05:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy. I have the same situation going on!!!
I figure...I can email him an ecard or something, he doesn't have to answer back, I dont really care for a reply...but the type of person that I am...I have to send something...I know my strength I know that if we communicate again, it'll be alright, because I am not willing to put myself through the hurt I felt once.
It's really up to you, YOU are the only one who can determine if you're strong enough to see what could happen after, if he replies or not...how will it feel.
2006-10-27 05:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya sister....I sent my ex a birthday card a few months back. In it I also wrote a letter about how although the end was painful it was worth it in the end because it made us better people....I also told him that i was getting married......a few days after his birthday, i find out that he just proposed to his girlfriend....I wonder if my letter had anything to do with that? My point- It does open wounds.....painful wounds.....they were a big part of your life, and it hard to let go sometimes.....
Take my advice...don't send him a happy birthday wish.....
2006-10-27 05:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Britta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a text message. I was with this guy for 3 years and lived with him for two, now I've been with his friend for the past 8 years and we all get along great! Even my ex-boyfriends new girlfriend hangs out with us all. Anyway, yeah send him a text message, there's no harm in that
2006-10-27 05:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i wouldnt send him anything its a waste of money even if you do get free texting its a waste of time...i know its hard to let go but this will leave you in a rut whatever his response maybe even if there isnt one...so spend your time going out with the girls that night:) goodluck:0)
2006-10-27 05:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!!! If you do communicate with him you are going to get hurt. He doesn't want to be with you or else he would be. Also.. just from having guy friends I know that they think moves like that are soo pathetic.. they will think you are so desperate and laugh as they show it around to all their friends. Save your pride MOVE ON!!!!
2006-10-27 05:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You 2 are done, move on. He won't appreciate your efforts and may see them as annoying, let it go! Your friends are right listen to them, they love and care for you and know you better than you think!
2006-10-27 05:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r dating someone else don't do it. It may give them the rong idea. BUT if u r not, and u still like ur ex, then send one
2006-10-27 05:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the past be behind you, its time to move on and find the real person, Good luck
2006-10-27 05:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋