Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

My mom is trying to get me on SSI when I am an adult and I want to enter the Job Corps program so I could be less dependent on the State and Federal government which I do not want to end up like that. She does not understand that I have rights to make my own decisions. What should I do?

2006-10-27 04:45:45 · 26 answers · asked by aaron_esq 3 in Family

and it has taken a lot of sweat and energy keepin it secret. ya know...makin sure they all dont know about each others....but now i just want to jump in bed with one of em..or maybe all of em. if i told em all at the same time would they all forgive me and we could all jump in bed together????

2006-10-27 04:45:05 · 20 answers · asked by enema boy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how would you know if someone likes/loves you?

2006-10-27 04:44:58 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together for over 5 years. he gave me an engagement ring but didn't tell me when we would get married. i've asked, when and he keeps saying "when the right time comes" and "some day we will". i have also asked him about living together and he says we are someday, but he prefers a house, rather than just paying rent. .finally he's purchasing a house with his family and he wants me to move in. so i asked him finally we could get married, and he said maybe it' not a good idea right now because the payments might go up or there would be problems in getting the house. i understand once you get married they look at both people like one with doesn't want to get married anymore. i'm worry that hicombine income and all. but there wouldn't be problem right or interference for the loans or anything in dealing with the house? why would he feel that he s family might be telling him stuff since they talk a lot. what do you think??

2006-10-27 04:44:11 · 23 answers · asked by black_metal_mist 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 04:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by girliegirl 2 in Singles & Dating

how can you get a guy to pay attention to you

2006-10-27 04:43:49 · 10 answers · asked by silent girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 04:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by NiColE 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 04:42:11 · 5 answers · asked by Susan L 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a polish girl my BF had a two week "relationship" with before we met.

He has told me she has found out my name and is emailing him saying she would meet him behind my back.... I have found out her telephone number ............should I text her saying keep away from my man, or , text saying I think she is a sad loser or just leave it?

2006-10-27 04:41:33 · 44 answers · asked by doll 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is a lovely guy and i can tell he's desperate for kids,he has already told me he loves me but i'm not sure if i believe him. I could see myself being with him for a long time as we get on great but do you think he's putting things on heavy?

2006-10-27 04:40:52 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just joined a website out of curiousity... why is it that there are more men than women? I mean this could be to my benefit but not necessarily in my partners best interest...

2006-10-27 04:39:16 · 22 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3 in Singles & Dating

im always watching tele and want to start a hobby,what could i do as a mother daughter activity?

2006-10-27 04:37:57 · 17 answers · asked by flow_j 2 in Family

it said, "you wanna a bl0w j0b?"

should i take her offer or turn it down? i've never had a bl0w j0b before...

2006-10-27 04:37:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been out of the dating scene for too long. I should take some time to get myself grounded but I want to go out as well. There is a woman I have been chatting with online and i can't get a read on her. I am very interested and would love to take it to the next step but am unsure of how she feels. I guess i have a 2 part question, How do I ask her without seeming desperate or pushy and what would be the perfect first date?

2006-10-27 04:37:28 · 5 answers · asked by babyboy9car 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 04:36:54 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my gf gets upset because i eat cold hot dogs with raspberry jam while we makin love...but what the hell?? i dont tell her whta to do

2006-10-27 04:36:11 · 15 answers · asked by enema boy 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically, there is an error: wk01.vms which appears after I just meet melfice for the first time. Plz, help me. I need to complete the game.
Does anyone know how to fix this error or do I have to buy a new game :(
Wizdom
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2006-10-27 04:36:01 · 1 answers · asked by Wizdom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This pregnancy was planned but I started feeling really wierd,sad,and angry. At my brother in Laws wedding he totally ignored me,I would wake up and he would already be out of the hotel,he suggested I stay in the hotel with our 2 year old son so he does not make the bride to be mad if he talks during the ceremony,and he planned meetings on the last day of our trip. We agreed we would try to make this a vacation as well as a wedding trip. But he totally ignored me. SO I privately cursed him out and would send him cursing texts. He says he's never been talked to like that. It turns out that I have antepartem depression and I am also bipolar so I really over reaacted on the trip.I am now on meds and counseling and doing well.But now months later he is still very cold to me.Last month he said he can't handle my illness and he MAY want a divorce. We do not speak unless necessary, and I asked him for sex and he says no.This is so hard to deal with. I have my own struggles and preg! Help!

2006-10-27 04:35:40 · 18 answers · asked by Beautifulme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 04:34:41 · 26 answers · asked by i_like_bears 4 in Singles & Dating

this is totally opinion, but i'm curious to know what ladies think is the optimal height / weight. Preferably go a 2 inch range, and a 10 pound range. Check back later and ill make some charts if you're interested.

2006-10-27 04:34:18 · 27 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 04:33:52 · 23 answers · asked by softball_gurll13 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend told me she had a dream where I caused her to cry a river and that I broke her heart. She told me she would give me the details later. Could it mean she's worried about something?

2006-10-27 04:33:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night was the worst night of my life. I'm going through major family issues right now, and I needed him to be there for me so badly. So he came over and I thought he was going to comfort me, but instead he broke up with me! I couldn't believe what he was doing, especially the timing. It was terrible. He said he's wanted to break up with me for a while, but didn't because he "didn't want to hurt me". Why do guys do that? Do they think I will commit suicide if they break up with me? WHY DO THEY DO THAT? Just yesterday afternoon we were telling each other how much we loved one another and making plans for this weekend and next weekend. What should I do? I told my boyfriend countless times that the only way he could hurt me is by not being honest. And then I find out he's wanted to break up with me, but has been dishonest about it! WHY???

2006-10-27 04:33:18 · 15 answers · asked by Maria Isabel 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 04:32:59 · 9 answers · asked by mulu t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She still has a mortgage on the house. If she should at some point need to be placed in a nursing home, she doesn't want the house to be attached to that. So how does that work? Can she just change it, or does it have to be refinanced with my name on it?

2006-10-27 04:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by 2LabsNY 5 in Family

I decided based on advice to go ahead and pursue this guy at work who has ben winking at me. Any other advice. I wrote the letter and inserted the nice picture of what i look like outside of my scrubs...now what?

2006-10-27 04:32:04 · 8 answers · asked by hotmominpa2 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is this guy and we have been flirty and fooled around a little in the past but nothing major... well lately we were talking about dating then just kinda stopped, he lived far away at the time but was moving back so we were talking about something happening when he got here. Well we both dated around and i guess he started talking to his ex from here and they decided to see if something could happen. SO he told me he really liked me and was really attracted to me and it was an incredibly tough decision but he wants to see what happens with his ex and if it fizzles he really wants to try something with me. Im upset but understand.... but what do I do? lay low and just let it play out or intervene? I want this to work we have so much history and I KNOW it would work if I just get a chance. I dont want to push away this other girl and risk looking obsessive if she can bring him happiness but I just cant stand knowing I might not get a chance now! Dammit! Help!!!

2006-10-27 04:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its been about a year and a half, and I have ups and downs. They have been dating constantly since the day we broke up. Why is it so hard and how do I move on? Help.

2006-10-27 04:31:47 · 4 answers · asked by aquarian77 3 in Singles & Dating

I have 29 years, work as consulting of computer science and am Brazilian I look a young woman whom relmente it desires to constitute a family, I wait reply. jean_claudio@yahoo.com.br

2006-10-27 04:31:28 · 8 answers · asked by Lobo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do if he wants us to have, you know, sex?

2006-10-27 04:31:28 · 11 answers · asked by passion flower 1 in Singles & Dating