Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

I've seen it so many times. Women almost alwas say they want the nice, sweet guy... the one who will treat them like they should be treated... this will often be the guys that's 'hot', but have wonderful a personality...

then, i see the same women, turn around and date idiot's that treat them badly... then they complain that they can't find the 'Nice Guy'... even though, i'm a nice guy, and i've had woman say this exact same thing to me...

why do women do this, not just to me (I'm acualy in a relationship and love her dearly)...

I'm just wondering why women do this?

2006-10-27 04:16:38 · 4 answers · asked by Junior1544 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 20 years and just now going thru a divorce. During our marriage I did not work that much, I was a stay at home mom. My husband has always made good money and took good care of us. Now that we are getting a divorce I do not understand spousal support that my lawyer said he might can get for me. It's so hard right now and having to start all over again at my age. Can anyone help that has gone thru this?

2006-10-27 04:15:54 · 5 answers · asked by Janet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

TEAR!

2006-10-27 04:15:49 · 23 answers · asked by Lizzy O 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know everyone's opinions.

2006-10-27 04:15:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got marry at a young age had 2 babys with my ex husband got divorce. My boyfriend for 2 1/2 years at the begining of the relationship he wanted kids and I didnt cause I was scare now I want a baby my kids are 8 & 6 I feel like Im ready but he dont want babys.

2006-10-27 04:15:29 · 17 answers · asked by negra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 04:15:21 · 12 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

I am so broken heart. He said we may need not to be togther and then he said yes we will not fight again from now on. (we are on long distance) This is not the first time he wants to leave me. He is blaming me for this fight and telling me this is all because of me he is again thinking to leave me. The reason he was upset because i disconneted my phone for one day after he said some mean things tow days ago. I dont know. He does say mean things, when i take action and then he blames me for fight. Please help i am so sad write now. Is he is gonna leave me again.

2006-10-27 04:15:00 · 13 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 35 and my sister is 31. The last time I talked to her was January of this year. She was supposed to come see me in February, to celebrate a late Christmas. She never came and I haven't heard for her since. She has a drug addition and I'm very worried about her.

2006-10-27 04:14:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-27 04:14:38 · 7 answers · asked by seeme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 04:14:29 · 13 answers · asked by spartacus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies would it bother you more if your man left you for another man as opposed to another woman?

Men would it bother you more if your woman left you for a woman
as opposed to another man?

I know both would suck but if you had to choose one what would it be?

2006-10-27 04:14:26 · 13 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Singles & Dating

how come people play 2 much these dayz

2006-10-27 04:13:51 · 4 answers · asked by jasma b 1 in Friends

2006-10-27 04:13:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think i am pregnant by my ex boyfriend and i dont know what to do i dont know if his gonna leave me by myself because at the time he has a girlfriend and i have boyfriend but we still mess with each other and now i think i am pregnant and im scared please help me!!!!!!!

2006-10-27 04:13:30 · 5 answers · asked by deedee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 04:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by mcay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I'm a 21 yr old professional woman

Guy 1
I went on a date with him and got bored, felt he was uninterested in me so i left the date to meet up with Guy 2. It told him i wasnt interested but he inists that he knows where he went wrong and wants me to give him another chance.

Guy 2
I met at a club, he wanted a relationship but he has a son so i said no. We got back into contact and decided to be friends. Thats why i met up with him after the other date. We were kinda getting close, talking on the phone daily etc. He took me to my graduation ball but has been distant ever since.

Guy 3
He is 10 yrs older than me and has two kids,divorced. Doesn't sound good but we get along great!! He is a family friend, my parents know him and they know he is keen on me and wouldn't mind if we got together

I'm kinda stuck,im flattered by the interest of guy 1. Guy 2 and i felt like it was going somewhere but hasn't. Guy 3 i like but worried bout a couple of issues kids and age

2006-10-27 04:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For me, candle-lit dinners are fine, slow-dancing under the moonlight is romantic... but poem-reading and song writing are just too corny. Well those are my ick factors. What's yours?

2006-10-27 04:12:35 · 6 answers · asked by girliegirl 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been friends since 4th grade and we are 28 and 29 years of age now. About a year ago she told me that she was attracted to me and that she wanted to perform oral sex on me i just laughed it off and gave it no more thought. A couple of months after that she told me that it was just a phase that she was going through. How can i tell if she is over that phase or not. Right now she has a boyfriend well she always has had a boyfriend and i dont know whether to believe her or not. She is always talking about us doing a threesome together with another guy. She has also shown me some naked pictures of her playing with herself. She is very open about things like this she has shown those pictures to everybody. what do you think?

2006-10-27 04:12:22 · 3 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1 in Friends

I dumped a guy and then he sent me messages like f your mother and you b**** then I told him never to contact me again or I would cancel my cellphone and yahoo and he replied back.."change I hope you quickly change your number" what is wrong with him? I just replied what is wrong with you? I don't want to fight with you Ok! I thought I was giving him what he wanted so I said goodbye to him..so I don't understand...

2006-10-27 04:11:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1 year old oblivious, of course, Very perceptive 6 year old.

2006-10-27 04:10:43 · 18 answers · asked by Pissed off 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We married 5 years ago and have a 4 year old son. He loves the son and sais that he wants the son to have mommy, daddy and a home where we live together.In the past he wanted to have more children but I refused so recently he called me and invited me to meet his girlfriend who he said is a woman of his dreams ( he said the same to me 5 years ago) .He said she agreed to have children with him soon and he is madly in love. He said he loves me too dearly as his friend and wants us all to be friends.He said he will keep our beautiful flat for me and our son and nanny and will be living part time with me part time with new girlfriend. I think the girl is young gold digger and is after his money. My husband is wealthy but the wealth is offshore and if we split up I will have nothing ( had consulted and spent over a £1000 on one of the best london solicitors already) He said i am free to date other people. I am a postgraduate student my family is back in russia, i got no job and nowhere to go

2006-10-27 04:09:59 · 35 answers · asked by margusenok 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Email me please :)

2006-10-27 04:09:57 · 8 answers · asked by Tcb222 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 04:09:39 · 20 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 04:08:40 · 15 answers · asked by zooey d 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful wife and 2 great kids. I need some suggestions that will surprise her. Something that is uncommon, that can be done at home. Something that is out of the ordinary.

2006-10-27 04:08:19 · 11 answers · asked by DR. WHO 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend told me yesterday that he liked me more as a friend..... i took it as he was braking up with me ..... and now he really wants to work things out!! i am mad!!! why are some people even like that ... i accepted the offer >>>> am i stupid or what??

2006-10-27 04:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well he is really goth and really hot i love him also he is sweet but my problem is that he is way older than me

2006-10-27 04:07:26 · 4 answers · asked by bowser011 2 in Singles & Dating

and you knew you were being watched by someone lurking in the hedge or something - would you stride to give him something to REALLY watch - or would you pull the curtins?!
Just wondering - Im not planning on becoming a peeping tom or nowt! xx

2006-10-27 04:07:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm kind of scared or confused about it, anyway i do not thinkit's bad...buti sometimes think she likes women too...

2006-10-27 04:06:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls help,I had an online relationship with a guy for over a yr.We decided to get married in the future.He has been really kind and loving to me.I love him so much.He told me there's no one else out there for him.Recently he stopped communicating with me and he said he needs some time to think about stuff.Whenever i call or try to contact him, he never answers.I dont know what to do, im goin nuts.I cant move one cus he hasnt said anything to me or given me an explanation as to why he's acting this way.
What should I do?Do you think that he no longer loves me?
Pls no rude comments.

2006-10-27 04:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by foolish 1 in Singles & Dating