my boyfriend told me yesterday that he liked me more as a friend..... i took it as he was braking up with me ..... and now he really wants to work things out!! i am mad!!! why are some people even like that ... i accepted the offer >>>> am i stupid or what??
2006-10-27 04:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes when two people are just good friends they seem too get along great, and love too spend time together, don't take the other one for granted and etc..When that friendship turne toward the Romatic Side..some, not all, people seem too change. It's hard too explain but thats what happens. Your boyfriend is trying too tell you that you were different when you two were just friends. You may have changed toward him without even realizing it. Ask him too explain and listen carefully too what he's saying. If you really like this guy, try too work it out. You're not stupid, I think you make perfect sense. BUT...talk it out,and try too resolve the problems. Good luck
2006-10-27 04:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was your boyfriend, weren't you two already friends? He has jsut figured out that he is not fully ready to commit himself to you...and is backing away from the relationship. Give it time, if things are good between you two then the relationship will become stronger. Meanwhile, if he is just a friend, get out of his bed...
2006-10-27 11:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-27 11:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know its not what you should have done...THEN CHANGE IT. ITs so much harder to live with regret later in life. Just imagine... why you are wasting your time with this guy, the right guy could come along, see that youre taken and move on too. Good luck
2006-10-27 11:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once that happened to me, I did not wanted to go on with this girl, but she cry and all that stuff, so I agreed to "work things out", after a week it was all over
2006-10-27 11:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't of accepted the offer, i think it was a pretty stupid choice because your letting him get the best of you! but if you want to get back with him so be it.
2006-10-27 11:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously something is going on in his head or he wouldnt have said that. Talk to him. Find out why he said that. Personally, I would take that pretty seriously and assume the relationship is going down. Sorry.
2006-10-27 11:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by BellaRia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's confused ... Talk to him about what you BOTH want from the relationship and then make a joint decision to either go with it or break up.
You're not stupid, you're human!
2006-10-27 11:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a shot. You will see whether he is serious or not. People always have doubts at first and then see the error of their ways.
2006-10-27 11:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people need assurance. He probably thought he could do without you and tried it, then realized he couldn't. You should break it off...Relationships never make it if people are unsatisfied
2006-10-27 11:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋