pls help,I had an online relationship with a guy for over a yr.We decided to get married in the future.He has been really kind and loving to me.I love him so much.He told me there's no one else out there for him.Recently he stopped communicating with me and he said he needs some time to think about stuff.Whenever i call or try to contact him, he never answers.I dont know what to do, im goin nuts.I cant move one cus he hasnt said anything to me or given me an explanation as to why he's acting this way.
What should I do?Do you think that he no longer loves me?
Pls no rude comments.
2006-10-27 04:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by foolish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Online relationships are ludicrous. It is hard to have a relationship with a computer. If he cannot be present, I suggest moving on to someone else. Getting married is serious business and need not be taken lightly.
2006-10-27 04:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the problems with online relationships. Regardless of what we think, we 'really' dont know this person. You are not close (living wise) so you dont know anything about his life except what he has told you. There could be a million other reasons why he hasnt contacted you, one of them being that he got scared off or has found someone else. It isnt right or considerate that he has left you hanging this way. But he did say he needed time. That sounds like his way of saying he wanted to back up. You dont say how long it has been since he said that and that makes a difference. If it has been a week, then thats not nearly enought time (although Im sure it feels like it to you).
2006-10-27 04:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i would have to first ask, since you've been in a relationship for a year, have the two of you met in person??
also, i don't mean to be rude, have you had sex with him? did this happen just after the first time you had sex?
maybe he's found some one local, and is seeing if you are realy what he wants? you said you can't move, maybe he can't either, so he's found some one local??
I realy don't know what could happen, there are so many different things that could happen, it's impossable to tell...
Sorry.
2006-10-27 04:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person. Some of my friends get angry when they're drunk even though they are calm normally. Others who are shy become even more so. Just talk it at this, people (not just guys, because I have got some stories about drunk girls too) do stupid stuff when they are drunk. For all you know he could have given you the wrong number simply because he was to drunk to know what he was writing.
2016-05-22 00:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that on a level he never thought of it as actually real. Roleplay if you will. Now he has a realization this is actually for real.
Has he ever seen you? If not I would arrange something if it's not too late. Best of luck to you at any rate.
2006-10-27 06:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have met someone else. Wait if you want but moving on will be best.
2006-10-27 04:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seem the guy has found another person indeed, though he might also still want to play double game, if that one is not working he will come back to you... i tell it better you move on in life, you cant wait for one person because you said you love him, if he truelly love you he still stick to you.
2006-10-27 05:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well has he seen you maybe he thought you werent that pretty(not to be rude), some guys do that i mean come on do online relationships really work!
2006-10-27 04:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has found someone else.
2006-10-27 04:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋