Ok, I'm a 21 yr old professional woman
Guy 1
I went on a date with him and got bored, felt he was uninterested in me so i left the date to meet up with Guy 2. It told him i wasnt interested but he inists that he knows where he went wrong and wants me to give him another chance.
Guy 2
I met at a club, he wanted a relationship but he has a son so i said no. We got back into contact and decided to be friends. Thats why i met up with him after the other date. We were kinda getting close, talking on the phone daily etc. He took me to my graduation ball but has been distant ever since.
Guy 3
He is 10 yrs older than me and has two kids,divorced. Doesn't sound good but we get along great!! He is a family friend, my parents know him and they know he is keen on me and wouldn't mind if we got together
I'm kinda stuck,im flattered by the interest of guy 1. Guy 2 and i felt like it was going somewhere but hasn't. Guy 3 i like but worried bout a couple of issues kids and age
2006-10-27 04:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you asking a genuine question or just showing off?
2006-10-27 04:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by gremlin_lemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-give guy 1 one more chance, you never know! (maybe he was nervous)
-give guy 2 more of a chance and don't be afraid of kids (I thought I was not one for someone else's kid(s).. and now I have a great life with my husband and step-daughter, as well as our son!) He may just be trying to play hard to get or something. Guys think they have to do this. silly
-guy 3 ... hmmm it might just sound all good to you because he is comfortable because you know him, family likes him... but i dunno.. you need to get more one-on-one (no kids or family) to really get to know this one's true self. And remember not to get too involved too fast because breaking this one off, if needed, will be hard because of the family closeness and kids.
So I'd say you're not done with any of them yet! sorry
Talk it slow, figure them all out.
2006-10-27 04:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by TrendChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one who;
you can trust,
who is really interested in you,
who is attracted to you,
who cares about you,
who will accept you for who you are.....
By the way I don' t think that the age gap is a big problem... and if you really love that guy... his kids aren' t a problem neither his age!!
2006-10-27 04:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go with the one that makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe give guy 1 another chance but always go with the one that treats you like gold and makes you feel good.
2006-10-27 04:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give guy 1 another shot before exploring things with guy 3.
2006-10-27 04:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to go look for guy 4.
2006-10-27 04:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant u date all 3? till u find the right one!
2006-10-27 04:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ima tell you that you should go with which ever one that makes you feel better like when you around them you just feel as if you have no worries
2006-10-27 04:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by Antinitra B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and about and find guy number 4....if u ain't sure about them don't go out with them...simple as that.
2006-10-27 04:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Muffmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask who has the most money.
2006-10-27 04:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋