Women say they want one thing, but then turn that down?

Question

I've seen it so many times. Women almost alwas say they want the nice, sweet guy... the one who will treat them like they should be treated... this will often be the guys that's 'hot', but have wonderful a personality...

then, i see the same women, turn around and date idiot's that treat them badly... then they complain that they can't find the 'Nice Guy'... even though, i'm a nice guy, and i've had woman say this exact same thing to me...

why do women do this, not just to me (I'm acualy in a relationship and love her dearly)...

I'm just wondering why women do this?

Answer 1

in my opinion, men muz know how to balance it up... too sweet is not good either u know.. girls like their guy to be tough so that they will feel 'vulnerable' yet protected... wanting sth that you don't have is a very natural and common thing in human.. when u have it, you don't treasure it, when u lose it, then you will regret not knowing the value of it.... tat's y girls are like tat.. this theory applies to men too... when the have such a sweet and nice girl who take care of them, they will complain that the girl is being too clingy and over-concern... when a hot babe appears out of nowhere, they will leave the innocent girl and live a life with the babe, only to find out later that they r not the only man in the babe's life... and then come the complaints! So why is this question only being directed to the girls?

Answer 2

Women want a nice guy, but a lot of times the nice guys are insecure push-overs. Women also like guys who are very confident. It's hard to find that balance between the two.

Answer 3

Chicks ALWAYS go for the Bad Boy.

Answer 4

only insecure women do this. i see men do it too. some people just like "drama." it's stupid.