Last night was the worst night of my life. I'm going through major family issues right now, and I needed him to be there for me so badly. So he came over and I thought he was going to comfort me, but instead he broke up with me! I couldn't believe what he was doing, especially the timing. It was terrible. He said he's wanted to break up with me for a while, but didn't because he "didn't want to hurt me". Why do guys do that? Do they think I will commit suicide if they break up with me? WHY DO THEY DO THAT? Just yesterday afternoon we were telling each other how much we loved one another and making plans for this weekend and next weekend. What should I do? I told my boyfriend countless times that the only way he could hurt me is by not being honest. And then I find out he's wanted to break up with me, but has been dishonest about it! WHY???
2006-10-27 04:33:18 · 15 answers · asked by Maria Isabel 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i can say is love hurts !
so get some rocky road ice cream and Chloette and cry for a bit and it will be over and you will find a new nice guy !
this won't last forever
2006-10-27 04:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was telling you what you wanted to hear. It has only been one day so I am sure you will not be over him that soon. His timing was in deed at the wrong time. But they say when it rains bad news it pours. You see he isnt the type of person that will be there when you need him. So its a good thing that he is gone. Find a true friend thats willing to listen. Worry about yourself and your family issues he need to be the least of your worries.
2006-10-27 04:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend let it go....when you were making plans for the weekend, he was buying time. Just let it go. If he can not realize that your a good catch then tell him Bye....put some notes up by the phone , erase his number from speed dial and yoru cellphone.
There is somebody out there that will not hurt you...sorry about your family issues as well.
2006-10-27 04:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by wanting to know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, have a good cry. just let it out. or scream, do whatever. just do it. second, i think that you should give yourself distance from him because honestly, this is now a time for you to focus on YOU. it will take time for you to overcome these feelings. so, i suggest you grab a couple of your best girlfriends, go out and have nothing but endless fun. you will never really know how amazing friends can be during these rough times. i know timing is sucky but, once you get past all the bad...good will come. hang in there, be strong (cuz you know you are) and if he tries to contact you, etc. tell him you are not ready. BE STRONG!
2006-10-27 04:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay he has made his decision, now you have to deal with it, he is not the first guy, and he is not going to be the last! so it is not the end of the world! In time you will get over him. With your family issues, you need to do what ever you can to deal with that. Sometimes if you do what you have to do, then everything will get on better. so try that. Now concentrate on school, Try and work on you, doing what you like, being nice to yourself, everything is going to be alright!
2006-10-27 04:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and thats exactly how you get over him... Think about all those horrible things he just did to you!! About how he decided to be dishonest and break up with you in a difficult time in your life. Obviously he is selfish, and you dont want a selfish person to deal with for the rest of your life so consider yourself lucky!!
2006-10-27 04:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess this stuff just happens. there's not much u can do about it. but hey, u can see it as a way of being more independent. if u can handle and deal w/ ur problems on ur own it'll make u that much stronger, and u'll see him as just another guy who left u when u needed the help, but u made it through anyways, and if u really do need a shoulder u always have ur friends.
2006-10-27 04:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Beyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time now that this as happen. Again you have to be yourself as a woman you are beautiful enough for love to find you. Don't let it bother you it is in times like this that you know someone who really love you and care about you. So pray GOD will comfort you and will even give you someone who will comfort you and love you for you.
Take heart dear. I feel your pain.
Thanks
2006-10-27 04:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like the greater serious component that ought to happen. From very own journey I did a similar component yet stayed with my spouse. life throws us curve balls and all we can fairly do is attempt to swing at them. As undesirable as this sounds (sorry) you're able to desire to p.c.. your self up and come again into life. enable destiny be certain what is going to happen next. in case you reside in that little ball you will not at all fairly be over it and the wear and tear won't flow away. life is completed of united statesand downs. you're able to desire to arise from this down, dirt your self off and believe that destiny or regardless of better ability you have self assurance in, has super plans for you. I promise the wear and tear will flow away and the throwing up will end and you'd be happy back. merely believe that life has you lined and you'd be effective. good luck and shelter your self.
2016-11-25 23:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by combes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out with your friends, drink some beers, flirt a little, pick up a random (NICE) guy and f**k his brains out!
Time will eventually heal your pain but for now, just enjoy life
2006-10-27 04:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋