2006-10-27 04:42:11 · 5 answers · asked by Susan L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, what makes up Chemistry, precisely? I'm thinking that most if it has to do with similar speech patterns - fast vs slow, thoughtful vs witty, superficial vs deep... I want an intellgent answer to this. I don't think it is physical attraction, because we don't "connect" with everyone who we find attractive. I don't think it is similar interests, or values. I've dated attractive guys with similar interests and values and we couldn't hold a conversation, each of us being good conversationalists in our own right.
2006-10-27 04:58:04 · update #1
I mean, what makes up Chemistry, precisely? I'm thinking that most if it has to do with similar speech patterns - fast vs slow, thoughtful vs witty, superficial vs deep... I want an intellgent answer to this. I don't think it is physical attraction, because we don't "connect" with everyone who we find attractive. I don't think it is similar interests, or values. I've dated attractive guys with similar interests and values and we couldn't hold a conversation, each of us being good conversationalists in our own right. And if it is an "instant" connection, what makes that happen? A rat study showed that if you put a bunch of rats together, the ones that end up mating are the ones who have the most different cell surface proteins. Nature's way of ensuring biodiversity. So maybe it just comes down to smell. Could the "instant" connection just be phermones?
2006-10-27 05:01:08 · update #2
when you feel an instant attraction or bond with a person of the opposite sex....you just click and get along really well.
2006-10-27 04:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A connection.
2006-10-27 11:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two people are really in tune with each other, they feel the same, think the same have the same sense of humour etc.
2006-10-27 11:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chemistry is an instant feeling that you have for someone (particularily of the opposite sex)...either u have it or u don't
It cannot be created....
2006-10-27 11:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two hearts beat as one.
2006-10-27 11:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋