2006-10-27 04:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by NiColE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yikes. This is tough. If you knew that he belonged to someone else then why did you get involved? Now 31/2 years later you have a big problem on your hands. I'd let the guy go so that he can decide what he really wants in life.
2006-10-27 04:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Light 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you're in this situation now... that is a horrible spot to be in... did you know he was seeing this girl when you guys got together? If you did I'm sorry to say that you kind of had this coming. He's still with her for some reason just the same with you, whether he can't make up his mind or things are bad with her so he's with you, either way its a messy. You're true-to-life best bet is to just cut your losses as soon as you can. If she doesn't know about you she'll find out eventually and that will just make things worse. If she leaves him because he's been cheating on her with you than you'll never really know where his heart is. But the fact of the matter is that he's been cheating on you too. You can't honestly tell me that in the three plus years you two have been together he hasn't been sleeping with her too, and you shouldn't have to share someone. Really hunnie I feel for you and the perdicament you're in but please you can not continue what you're doing... it's not fair that he gets to have his cake and eat it too, it's not fair to her that her boyfriend that she's loved for six years has been cheating on him half the time, and it's not fair for you to be in the middle of it with your heart on the line. You can do so much better with your life and your emotions than worring and wondering all the time... I mean how much longer should you can deal with this stress, aggervation, and hurt? The answer to that is you shouldn't.
2006-10-27 05:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's been cheating on his g/f with you for 6 1/2 years. Sounds magical.
You should break up with him if you have character. So you sleep with a guy and he goes to his girlfriend and sleeps with her.
Show some character and grow up. This is ridiculous and kind of sleazy behavior. Once a cheater always a cheater and you both are now cheaters. Pretty sad.
2006-10-27 04:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you knew what you were doing when you got with this guy. Really, why are you wasting your time with someone who already has someone?? I honestly believe that you should find your own man. If he is doing this with g/f #1....what do you think he would do if you became g/f #1?? This guy will probably contine to do this sort of thing in the future. What a waste of time!
2006-10-27 04:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id say you should let him know how you feel.
but then again once you do that you'll have 2 deal w// the girl hes been dating for so loong*
but he must liike you too if hes been w// you for the last 3 1/2 years of their relationship..
good luck =]]'
2006-10-27 04:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why you would allow yourself to be the other girl in his life rule one your supposed to be your mans one and only .don't ever let them take advantage of you that way or play with another girls feeling like that .i would not what to be with my man for 6 years by his side up and downs of every day life and find out that he has some other girl on the side for 3 years.oh man i don't know I'm not trying to be racial or any thing but you don't mess with a Latina like that because the man would have very serious sexual problems and that girl would have to move out of the state that just is not cool get your life together and tell him straight out pick her or me i give you two days to make up your mind if you don't make up your mind I'm gone and i will let her know what you have been doing so make up your mind her or me ..............................just tell him str8 you only hurting your self and that other girl its not cool do it before you end up in a lot of trouble .................................
2006-10-27 05:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by mari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl run for the hills. If he will do it WITH you he will do it TO you.
Don't you think you are worth someone who will comit to you and think you alone are enough! Please try to get over him. I know this isn't what you want to hear but it is the truth coming from someone who has been there - done that.
2006-10-27 04:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have gotten involved if he was with someone else. you set yourself up for it. no matter what he says dont believe anything he tells you about his relationship with the other girl. if hes been playing her, why do you think you will be any different?
2006-10-27 04:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so do I get this right..you're the other woman.. he's cheating on his girlfriend of 6 years with you??? I'm just hope she doesn't find out and you get a life and find your own man, not someone elses
2006-10-27 04:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him the "It's either her or me" ultimatum
He can't possibly love either of you and I guess he's just been counting his blessings that he can have sex with two women any time he wants
2006-10-27 04:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋