Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

and can still plot against them in office politics and despite being intimate with him can do serious harm to the guy in carrear terms

2006-10-23 06:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 06:26:20 · 34 answers · asked by tony r 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i were discussing random topics. we started off talking about the future and he asked a lot of q's that made me think he sees us married. Then the topics changed to controversial issues and we both stated our opinions; but our views didn't agree. he's allowed to have his viewpoint, but i was upset when he put me down, "you can't disagree because you don't understand this bla bla." It made me feel bad that i wasn't on his intellectual level, but he didn't have to be demeaning about it. after sleeping on it for a night; i was still upset the next morning and i told him he was mean the night before. i couldn't help it, but i started to tear. he hugged and kissed me and apologized but i was still upset. i didnt realize it, but after i stopped crying, i noticed he was crying. i thought he was making fun of me, but then i realized. he was really crying, hiding under the blanket so i wouldn't notice. he said he cried because i was crying. i didn't realize my crying would hurt him.

2006-10-23 06:24:49 · 13 answers · asked by bubu~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Please do not assume this applies to me. It doesn't.

2006-10-23 06:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by GreenEyedSista 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like doing "it" more than he does. Is that normal? I always thought it was the other way around...At first it was fine...but now i'm lucky if i can get any 2ice a week... any ideas as to how i can make it better?

2006-10-23 06:23:24 · 20 answers · asked by zoey_grl1 1 in Singles & Dating

Wouls he realise that what he did was wrong and feel bad about it.

2006-10-23 06:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by ABCD 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and I were talking about x-mas yesterday and he asked what are we going to do about x-mas. He said he thinks we should set an amount to spend on eachother and not go over. Well, I think thats a fine idea, cause I tend to go overboard when it comes to buying presents but what should the limit be?? If I suggest too high, he will feel cheap to suggest lower if I suggest too low, he will think I dont want to spend much on him! We both make a decent living, so I wouldnt mind $200! but he might think thats too much! How do you address an issue like this? This is something you cant just -not- talk about, or beat around the bush!

2006-10-23 06:22:56 · 8 answers · asked by katie-bug 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a relasionship for a year with a girl I really loved.
Since we broke up (her decision), I have never been able to open up again.

3 years later we got together again, and I felt like I was given another chance for happiness. It took less than a week for me to realize that I was still hanging on to the past, and that I didn't want to be with the person she had become. I felt nothing for her.

I have since been in a relasionship with a girl I really care about, but feel nothing for emotionally. It been 3 years.

I dont want to waste any more of her time, but I cant seem to break it off (permanantly).

Will I always hang on to what I had in the past.

Can you really get over it?

2006-10-23 06:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 06:22:45 · 6 answers · asked by Denise B 2 in Family

I'm a guy who's cursed with being quite emotional. I get choked and tearful even watching sad films/programmes.

I'm getting married next year and don't want to be a blubbering mess during the vows.

While I don't want to be completly un-emotional at our wedding, I'm after some ideas on how I can overcome this? Is there any medication I can take?

2006-10-23 06:22:39 · 18 answers · asked by Nathan 3 in Weddings

We have different views on what is acceptable for our 8 year old to do and not to do. I get upset when he lets her watch things like King Kong and X-Men 3. He says that it is fine. How can I get him to see that this stuff bothers me, and that it is not ok for our 8 year old to watch?

2006-10-23 06:22:10 · 9 answers · asked by Stasi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 06:22:04 · 10 answers · asked by losman762003 1 in Singles & Dating

I was having a talk with my boss in restourant when my wife jumped in like meat ball.She tottaly sucks. First she farted,then she broke a glass, then she get drunk,then she tell my boss all stupid stories abaout me,then she sing like idiot.I want to have divorce.

2006-10-23 06:22:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I started talking to her in August after several emails through myspace. We had a really long talk that first night and had so mnay things in common that we scared each other. a couple of weeks later after talking on the phone almost every night and text messaging each other, we started to realize we had deeper feelings. I felt it about the same time as her but was afraid to say anything too soon since we had not even seen each other yet. One night she almost told me what she felt for me and I stopped her before she did and told her I loved her and she said she loved me back. That was over a month ago. It was good for awhile, talking about seeing each other and always keeping in communication but after a couple of weeks, I started to hear less and less. I know I am being paranoid, but I call her (not too many times I think) and I usually dont get a call back or if I do, it's like a 20 minute conversation. She says she loves me, but should I be concerned?

2006-10-23 06:21:59 · 18 answers · asked by Scorpio1974 1 in Singles & Dating

I was working away from home and my partner was handeling the paper work I didnt think much of it as we were going to get married but now we are broken up and it seeme that I have no claim to the house I worked so hard to get

2006-10-23 06:21:37 · 3 answers · asked by James L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i do not like driving on hilly roads, in bad weather, etc. what about the people. are there jobs to be had and do they pay decent wages. i need pros and cons, please.

2006-10-23 06:21:37 · 2 answers · asked by LINDA W 1 in Family

HE SAYS HE IS BROKE, WAITING ON THE BOSS TO PAY HIM, THEN LATER HE SAYS I HAVE TO SEND MY KID(S) SOME MONEY WHAT WOULD U OUT THERE READING THIS THINK. LOOKING FOR ADVICE LONELYINUS

2006-10-23 06:21:22 · 3 answers · asked by LONELYINUS 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a cheer thing in his home town all his friends came even his little brother.i called him and he said he was to busy and he forgot.
we were sopose to have dinner together but he canseled.he lives all the way in pismo and i live in fresno if u dont know where that is its about 2and a half hours away so i cant see him much. i broke up w/ him am i right to do that?

2006-10-23 06:21:12 · 4 answers · asked by nikki 14 1 in Singles & Dating

OK I HAVE JUST TALK TO MY B/Fs MOM AND SHE SAYS THAT HER SON NEVER GAVE HIS EX- ANYTHING AND THE GURL IS JEALOUS AND THAT HER SON SAYS THAT HE LOVES ME MORE THAN HES EVER LOVED HIS EX'S SHOULD I LISTEN TO HIS MOM?

2006-10-23 06:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by adriane c 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 weeks is very insecure. I adore him but he has a low self-esteem. He is good looking, smart, funny and has a good heart. I constantly shower him with praises and compliments. What can I do?

2006-10-23 06:19:54 · 4 answers · asked by Peaches 1 in Singles & Dating

C'Mon guys chime in.....I know I'm not alone here!

2006-10-23 06:19:35 · 41 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

You know how people say if you're afraid of your loved one cheating/lying/hurting you, it's b/c you don't trust your own self? I hate that! I trust every part of myself! How can I get over this? I need to just trust him.....how can I tell him that I DO TRUST MYSELF 100%, I'm just afraid of getting hurt, so I'm being a little cautious when it comes to letting that wall down...it has nothing to do with me not trusting myself, at all!

2006-10-23 06:19:23 · 9 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Singles & Dating

and shes going out whit both?

2006-10-23 06:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sex education should be taught in school to give students more of and idea of what goes on, and maybe they will be aware of the things that could happen

2006-10-23 06:17:18 · 12 answers · asked by nina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my ex are talking right now as friends and I want to ask her back out to give it another shot... I just don't feel comfortable just popping up the question but I really do want to get back with her... what should I do, what should I say to her?

2006-10-23 06:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so, what was the experience like?

2006-10-23 06:15:02 · 6 answers · asked by trouble1374 1 in Weddings

2006-10-23 06:14:55 · 30 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

I went through a difficult breakup with my baby's father 4 years ago but have managed to get along teh greatest with his family (sisters, uncels parents etc.) We broke up because he wanted to be with other people when in reality he was cheating on me behind my back with this other girl who knew i was pregnant by him but didn't care. Soon after i got pregnant and was about 2 months- she purposely got pregnant. Funny thing is that my kid was born in Jan 03 and her girl wasborn March 03 and no one in the family didn't even know she was pregnant not even his parents. Point is- she broke up my relationship with him or what could have been and she's no even wtih him now.. Because of all the dramam he created his family feels like they owe me an apology on for his behavior and for having me dropped off at my mom's when i was 6 months and telling me to call him when the baby was born. So- i moved on now and my new Boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is uncomfortable that i come over their house

2006-10-23 06:14:40 · 14 answers · asked by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i had this boyfriend and he told me he loved me and then broke up with me the same night... wtf?

2006-10-23 06:14:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everyplace i go wants to charge me for answer

2006-10-23 06:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships