I like doing "it" more than he does. Is that normal? I always thought it was the other way around...At first it was fine...but now i'm lucky if i can get any 2ice a week... any ideas as to how i can make it better?
2006-10-23 06:23:24 · 20 answers · asked by zoey_grl1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a camera! It's so much fun.
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2006-10-23 06:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by anab113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with a girl that had to do it EVERY DAY sometimes more than once a day. It got to the point that I had to fake orgasms... I know, that's so stupid. Even when I was sh!tfaced drunk, she would go down on my drunken body and blow me until I I was at least doable and proceed to ride me until she got off a few times. She's the only one I've ever met like this, so I'd say you are rther rare and should be cherished. I beleive the technical term is nymphomania, but you might not want it like my ex did, so maybe your man is just not as horny as you.
2006-10-23 06:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he's getting it some where else and doesn't have the guts to end it with you. Either that or he has some emotional issues he's dealing. Maybe he's having sexual identity issues? In any event, I would have a talk with him, if it doesn't change, then leave him. He might just be falling out of love with you as well. You could try a strip tease.
2006-10-23 06:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this happens in many relationships , we (my wife and I) have went this route in the beginning i wanted it ever day 5 times a day .As you can guess I was shot down 90 % the time .Well one day I awoke and it was like no big deal any more . I try to please her as often as possible but when you feel forced it makes you sick to think about it . Please just bear with him and buy a toy , not to be sick but hey it will make the relationship strong.
2006-10-23 06:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Brian_Tc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like it me than he does? Wow, an amazing woman you are. Just keep enticing him into bed. Bring in some toys and see if he likes that. When he comes home, be naked and waiting for him. If none of that works then just go solo and let him catch you.
2006-10-23 06:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by davinm23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to want to have sex. it's a common stereotype that males are the ones who are always horny, but that's not always true. it varies for girls depending on the time of the month, of course. it's not bad to need physical pleasure. it's a healthy attraction to your significant other, and twice a week isn't unreasonable. maybe you should entice him more. wear sexy lingerie, start by rubbing his back, stroking his face, kissing passionately, whispering and nibbling his ear, etc.
do the things he likes best. :)
2006-10-23 06:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by bubu~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's most likely because we're lazy and over sexed anyway. I know me and alot fo my guy friends have a lower sex drive than our women. why? Not fully sure. I know for me at least It's not that big of a deal, sex is sex. Meh. Sex might be a bit more mental than just physical for him.
2006-10-23 06:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by ithek_thundervoice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women now adays are actually wanting more then men, or atleast thats what ive noticed. But you shouldnt have to try anything for him to want you.
2006-10-23 06:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for the question. I'll be looking forward for some 'honest' answers from guys.
2006-10-23 06:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably should find out why you like it more...perhaps something is missing or perhaps he prefers the company of men
2006-10-23 06:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Maestro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋