Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

my hsuband no longer wear his wedding ring. he said that he doesn't like having it on while he's working(maintenance and janitorial job) and i understood that. but he doesn't wear it when we go out either, but he's always very affectionate with me even when were in publicand he tells me he loves me all the time. but it still bothers me that he does not wear it. he used to though. should this bother me? or am i just being petty?

2006-10-23 07:07:27 · 16 answers · asked by gracie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We are saving for a house & will probably get it at the end of next year. We have $50,000 saved up. We both have finished college & have good careers-we both make $20-25/hr. I know he wants to get everything financially in place but I'm so tired of waiting! He is 31 & I am almost 27. We've been married almost 2 years but been together a total of 8 years. I just feel like we have everything together except a house but hopefully we will get one next year. How can I talk him into trying to conceive several months before we buy? He said we might start in March but he changes his mind a lot. He even told his mom that & now she is excited. I just hope he doesn't give our hopes up! Any advice would help...thanks.

2006-10-23 07:06:47 · 17 answers · asked by beachbum26 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 07:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by abc123 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am just curious on what guys prefer, I am shaved myself but that doesn't mean that it is right for everyone. I want honest real answers

2006-10-23 07:06:07 · 28 answers · asked by lost in love 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 07:05:26 · 4 answers · asked by ronnie 2 in Singles & Dating

the 1st two months were okay but now he nevers wants to have time for me anymore should I break up with him?

2006-10-23 07:05:13 · 16 answers · asked by Tara G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a baby by c-section in may. While doing this the doctors found I had ovarian cancer. I had surgery in August. Because of all of this my husband ended up using all his vacation and sick time at work so we were unable to go visit his grandma that lives 5 hours away as planned. We found out that she died last night. I feel so guilty for us not being able to go visit one last time. Is it my fault and if it is, is there any way to make it up to him?

2006-10-23 07:04:34 · 47 answers · asked by Jessica_Bessica 3 in Family

2006-10-23 07:04:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Any personal information about one you might have would also be appreciated Thanks

2006-10-23 07:03:22 · 4 answers · asked by fyrechick 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I had an accident...my period ended last week....is it a high possibility that I will get pregnant? How soon can I get a test and what one?

2006-10-23 07:03:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant wait for my wedding- but i feel really competetive about my fiance and the fact that he's been around the world a lot... my insticts tell me to go travel a lot and just party like hell- is this normal? or should i just accept the fact that my bf is 9 years older and he obviously has done more things than me? i feel inferior because he has more experience... maybe as a guy, he need to feel this?

2006-10-23 07:03:12 · 29 answers · asked by wendysmmrs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mate came round to me to day and told me she was going to hire this women from a company called pretty women in the west mids do you think this is fare

2006-10-23 07:02:22 · 12 answers · asked by lisa h 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 07:02:05 · 20 answers · asked by a flower 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have two question is it true that if your husband get's his self off that he is cheating on you, and how do you find out if your husband is cheating on you with outher girl but you have your up and downs about it you don't think he is but you just want to be sure of it what can you do

2006-10-23 07:01:26 · 8 answers · asked by lafred116 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 07:01:07 · 15 answers · asked by Amy K 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm supposed to be getting married next June. I was just on my fiances computer and I found pictures of other women.
I wasnt looking for anything but I noticed his desktop backround was plain so I went into properties to change it and there I saw a pic file with a nude girl he used to date. So I start looking more and went into his documents and found 7 other pics of women. One was his ex girlfriend (who I caught him talking to a year ago behind my back) and others were girls he dated while we briefly broke up last year.
Wow, I am so upset. I can feel the tears filling in my eyes and I am shaky.

I did date one man after we broke up last year and I had a pic of him on my camera phone, well when my fiance found that pic on my cell phone when we got back 2gether he freaked out, went in another room and didnt talk to me for the whole night.
I am 99% sure they are old pics. but he didnt delete them and had that nude one pretty hidden. How do I confront him? Before when I confronted...

2006-10-23 07:00:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I saw 2 girls in school kissing and they looked hot. I felt really wierd. Is this normal? Does this happen to other women?

2006-10-23 07:00:02 · 11 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my sister lives with my dad and is 17 she signed a paper sayin she wanted to be with my dad.my dad is an *** to me and every1 else and now my mom aked me do i want to sign all rihgt over to her ...wat should i do

2006-10-23 06:59:48 · 13 answers · asked by needs advice 1 in Family

What would u do if your husband said that you are not creative enough during sex. We have always had great sex. Now he is hanging out with these new set of friends and he is all about "freaky' stuff. I feel upset and that he will go get it somewhere else. do u think that there is a reason for his new interest in different sex??It has been great for years now all a sudden he says he wants change???

2006-10-23 06:59:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 06:57:38 · 13 answers · asked by launa b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

see nor i luv him neither i'm crushed. i don know why but when i see him with my frend Faria i feel extremely green. i score highest marks in his subject. i know he likes me but still i think Faria is his fav student which i cant tolerate. i wanna b his fav student. may b i'm talking silly. i donno.

2006-10-23 06:57:04 · 5 answers · asked by DrAmA QuEeN 2 in Friends

Sex In The Dark

There was this couple that had been married for 20 years.

Every time they made love the husband always insisted on shutting off the light.

Well, after 20 years the wife felt this was ridiculous.

She figured she would break him out of this crazy habit.

So one night, while they were in the middle of a wild, screaming, romantic session, she turned on the lights.

She looked down... and saw her husband was holding a battery-operated pleasure device... a vibrator!

Soft, wonderful and larger than a real one.

She went completely ballistic.

"You impotent bastard," She screamed at him, "how could you be lying to me all of these years?

You better explain yourself!"

The husband looks her straight in the eyes and says calmly:

"I'll explain the toy . . . you explain the kids."

2006-10-23 06:56:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but i don't know how to tell him. i get nervous around guy's. what do i say or do to let him know i llike him??????

2006-10-23 06:55:57 · 22 answers · asked by sabrina r 1 in Singles & Dating

Dating 6months. Share lots of good times, but I'm concerned about the future of this relationship. I've expressed concerns about racial issues. She says "give it time". Is it too soon to tell?

2006-10-23 06:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by nysmiles2004 1 in Singles & Dating

About 3 years ago my best friends husband raped me... I told my friend first and all she wanted to know if I was going to press charges... And I did..We stopped talking and I really miss her being there when I needed her the most... I was thinking about looking her up just to see if there was a chance for a friendship.. I am just scared of what would happen.. I just wanna know if I am stupid to want to find her???

2006-10-23 06:55:49 · 19 answers · asked by sweetchic 2 in Friends

2006-10-23 06:55:16 · 10 answers · asked by srinivas m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 06:55:00 · 13 answers · asked by launa b 1 in Singles & Dating

I suffer from depression but have never gotten help for it, I had an instance two and a half years ago where I just quit going to work for three or four months and just couldn't make myself go and it wasn't bad then because I wasn't married so it didn't affect anyone but me. But in august of this year the same thing happened and instead of telling my husband that I was depressed I just lied and said that they were working on things at my work and I couldn't work as much. Well I went back to work about three weeks ago and I figured everything would be okay, but today my husband found out and he won't talk to me. He filed for divorce and I can't say that I blame him, but I want to get help and am on the phone right now trying to get help. I love my husband and I don't want to lose him, but should I just give up and not be his problem anymore?

2006-10-23 06:54:50 · 18 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do men like intelligent women?
Because opposites attract.

Any comments?? Thank U

2006-10-23 06:54:43 · 10 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Singles & Dating

If you are out with the girls, just looking for a guy to have fun with, just for one night, and whatever happens after happens, what are you looking for, appearance wise? personality wise? what normally catches your eyes if you just plan on hooking up?

2006-10-23 06:53:49 · 24 answers · asked by John H 5 in Singles & Dating