i have two question is it true that if your husband get's his self off that he is cheating on you, and how do you find out if your husband is cheating on you with outher girl but you have your up and downs about it you don't think he is but you just want to be sure of it what can you do
2006-10-23 07:01:26 · 8 answers · asked by lafred116 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One....we all "get ourselves off". I mean....what's your explanation? Are you being unfaithful to him. And please don't say "I don't". We all do dearie.
Two....stop looking for something that probably isn't there to begin with. Honestly...no wonder there are men that run from relationships with this kind of paranoia around.
Relax....if there isn't anything to can see or really makes you suspicious then leave it be. I recommend you lock the door....sit back and get yourself off. Relaxing and a good stress reliever...plus its free!
2006-10-23 07:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>> Its a universal thing amongst unmarried single guys.
>> If he is married and doing it too often then EITHER you are not helping him OR he has had some serious distraction. (could be movie or someone he is fantacsing about).
>> Don't worry he may still love you and never hope or dream of leaving or cheating you, but he may still get off on some stupid fantasy.
Cheer up nothing to worry...
2006-10-23 08:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by guy_darj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all masterbation is self pleasure. And you can't cheat on someone with yourself.
Second. You need to either get into counceling or terminate this marriage. he has done somethning in the past that has destroyed your trust in him and until or unless that is taken care of things will not change and you will continue to have problems.
2006-10-23 07:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys get the're selfs off just about everyday its normal but if u wanna know for sure that he is or isn't tell him to take a lie detector test thts the only true way or heres a little trick tell him to raise one arm straight then ask him yes or no questions if his arm goes down about an inch his lieing when u lie ur nerves react try it for fun first
2006-10-23 07:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by craZeJojO!!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys will cheat just depends if they meet the right chick to do it with, they won't all throw themselves at anything attractive they see, just look out for those little things but don't make yourself paranoid about it. if he is u will prob find out eventually anyway... yeah and the all have a pull now and then
2006-10-23 07:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Masterbating isn't cheating.
2006-10-23 07:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by momshell7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No men like sex ia all, normal!
2006-10-23 07:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, almost all guys beat it!!! thats normal!!
2006-10-23 07:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋