Dating 6months. Share lots of good times, but I'm concerned about the future of this relationship. I've expressed concerns about racial issues. She says "give it time". Is it too soon to tell?
2006-10-23 06:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by nysmiles2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My mom and friends have welcomed her w/ open arms.
2006-10-23 07:06:44 · update #1
You have two things against the future of this relationship. The first thing is the lesbian issue and the second is the racism. The future of this relationship is going to depend on the love and care you have for each other. It will depend on how much are you willing to give up to make this work and how much is your partner willing to give up to make it work. I think that you should focus on the relationship and forget about prejudice people that don't know how to deal with their lives, but want to run other peoples lives. Remember that you are both adults that have to make decisions of your own and do NOT allow families to get involved in your relationship, if you want to succeed and make it work..Good luck to both. It's your business, not theirs.
2006-10-23 07:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Big&Tall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, You'd think in 2006 people could get over race! It is America! Everyone is here. Black, White, whatever, people are people. Why would parents want to make things harder for her. If you really like her and you feel there will or could be a future in the relationship then go for it. If you call it off just for that reason, you're letting them win, and that's how they'll look at it. Maybe they'll see how happy their daughter is and come around. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 14:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how you see it it is not going to work out. Prejudice issues are in the heart of people. It will not go away it is there. Get out now. It they are prejudice that is a big issue by itself and you do not need to be subjected to that.
2006-10-23 14:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by starsmoonis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you two happy together
if so than move on just enjoy the time you have togther if it work out the better because at the end of the day who is going to sit home lonely
Good LUCK
2006-10-23 14:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what her family thinks your not dating them. If you love this woman give it some time like she said. Better yet don't let what small minded people think about you. You can't make them happy.
2006-10-23 14:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is willing to get rid of her family, My family hates blacks as well, but my sister is married to a black guy, so she is banned from my grandfathers house, OH WELL
2006-10-23 13:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely there is a chance for the relationship!
It's not about them.. it's about you and your mate's happiness is it not?
Who cares what everyone else thinks?
2006-10-23 13:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is her fam wont stand in her way...im mixed and my mom still calls me ******* after 18 years and she dnt like black ppl but she ****** one lol color shouldnt matter if they like u as a person its cuz who u r not wat ur skin coler is give em time they get used to it
2006-10-23 14:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by akosha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and try an older gentleman who is built for comfort not for speed.
2006-10-23 13:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by samssculptures 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let me see your pics, then we can make a decision on raher there is a future for u two.
2006-10-23 13:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋