Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - December 2007

do you think the girl should get an abortion if she already had one that same year and she thinks thats whats best

2007-12-28 12:32:23 · 12 answers · asked by Sydney M 1

i hav just turned 20 my boyfriend 21 and we hav a gorgeous 11 month old son he was not planned and i had a difficult pregnancy (meaning i did not no if i wanted to keep him.) were glad we did keep him. because of this my boyfriend and i have been extremely careful and used protection all the time. (apart from one stupid time when we were drunk)
about a month ago i found out i was pregnant, a scan a few days later confirmed i was 7 wks, by the end of that week i was booked in for an abortion, as my partner and i knew we would not be able to cope, also i am just getting over post natal depression, i knew this was the right thing to do, so i went ahead with the abortion, i was petrified of having it but i honestly knew it was the right thing for me.
now its been 2 weeks since having it done and i thought i was fine about it but im not sure i am i keep thinking about the baby and i think i regret it i no nothin can be done now, but y was i fine then and didnt want it but regret it now?

2007-12-28 12:03:48 · 11 answers · asked by sam 1

My baby is five month old and whenever she goes to her carseat, about to fall asleep, or just about to wake up she shakes her head from side to side constantly. I never seen other babies do that. Also her soft spot moves like when you are breathing in and breathing out... (but fast).. is there something wrong with her or it's normal?

2007-12-28 10:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by ~mother of 2 beautiful girls~ 3

Just a question for you to think about. If you were born and now you are 13. And your birthday was lets say january 10, 1993. Doesn't matter if it doens't make sense.
But yeah. lol.
So what if your family adopts a kid, who has the same exact birthday and year of birth. So is basically a twin of you.
But could you actually be called a twin considering the exact same birth details.

It would be awsome to say you had all the same birth information. And they go ohhh TWINS?! and you say no. ahha

2007-12-28 09:23:48 · 5 answers · asked by Soup for the Soul 4

2007-12-28 09:15:04 · 12 answers · asked by smileypeep 1

Ya know, the days when ya just don't feel like doing a thing? The thought of draggin your lazy rear to the shower seems like climbing a Mountain or doing the dishes or even turning the washing machine knob on? And just before your significant other comes home, ya run around a pick up the bare minimum so you don't look like a total slob? Just curious, as I'm in one! Want to know if I'm alone?

2007-12-28 09:15:01 · 6 answers · asked by julz 5

I have been a commited relationship now for 8 and half years. We recently got engaged in June and I found out 2 days ago that I was pregnant. I dont know what to do since this was not planned, actually it is the complete oppsite. We were going to me moving to another country in a month and start a bussiness. He feels that we should abort do to that reason and that he is not ready to be a father. I feel that everything happens for a reason and I want to have this child I also told myself that I wont get an abortion unless it was medically nessacary. I am also very worried that not matter if I choice to have the child or not that our relationship will never be the same. I am afriad that if I go through with an abortion that I am going to hate him and that if I dont and we dont move he is going to hate me. We have also been given the option of me moving in with my mom and him still moving to start the company. We both want kids its just that we werent planning on it being now. Any advise?

2007-12-28 08:50:14 · 19 answers · asked by bellastar1324 1

I was so excited to get a call for an interview today from a local, well paying buisness. I call to tell my Hubby at work, and he is, well, less than ecstatic. His reasons are that I should be home taking care of myself, plus the buisness is in let's say, no the greatest of neighborhoods. I don't understand, we need the money. Expecially when the baby comes. Plus I get BENIFITS! (healthcare, GREAT maternity leave plan)

Has anyone been through this with there man? What should i do? Should I go or not? What should I say to him? Help please!

2007-12-28 07:47:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard this some where, wondering if anyone has any info..

Thanks

2007-12-28 06:53:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the youngest age of a baby you ever babysat that was not your own.

2007-12-28 06:11:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am shocked but thrilled to be pregnant but also excited about my new job, and I don't know where I will stand with regards to maternity leave/pay. Can anyone help?

2007-12-28 05:44:24 · 15 answers · asked by EssexBride2be 1

2007-12-28 04:50:36 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren M 1

I WANT MY DAUGHTER TO EXPERIANCE ME GIVING BIRTH TO HER BROTHER OR SISTER BUT DO YOU THINK IT WOULD BE TO TRUMATIC I HAVE BEEN TOLD MANY ANWSERS GOOD AND BAD I JUST WANT TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE

2007-12-28 04:21:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been a SAHM for the last 7 years, and it's high time for me to get into the work force and contribute to the household finances. I only had one paying job before I had kids, almost ten years ago. What do I tell prospective employers when they want to know about previous job experience??

2007-12-28 03:48:40 · 95 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

She is also my mother in law's only grandchild and my parent's granchild (they have two more, but they live accross the country). Basically, she is the only baby in both sides of our family, so needless to say, she gets a lot of attention, has lots (tons!) of toys, etc. Aunts, uncles, friends, etc. are always coming over to play with her. At her recent first birthday party, a friend who also has a baby around the same age told me that I am going to have problems with my daughter, including holding attention spans, focusing on one thing at one time, problems in school, etc., because of all the toys and attention she gets right now. My daughter is a very happy baby or should i say toddler, who rarely cries or throws tantrums. My husband and I make sure we provide a loving, nurturing environment for our daughter. I am not sure how to take her comments. Any advice on this?

2007-12-28 02:59:27 · 12 answers · asked by motherhoodisthebest! 2

2007-12-28 02:38:50 · 7 answers · asked by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6

2007-12-27 21:13:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always worried if I tied a rubberband around my scrodum could my nuts fall off and if so would I be able to reconnect them?! Have you ever seent he Fray in Concert and hows come I got red bumps around my private parts?

2007-12-27 19:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by Ry 1

You may have read my other question about a name for our unborn daughted - due in April. We have a teacup poodle in the house. My mother in law says the dog has to go when the baby comes because it's unsanitary or might hurt the baby.

After I became pregnant she has tried to run my life! Thank God she doesn't live with me.

What are your thoughts on this?

2007-12-27 18:58:22 · 19 answers · asked by *KyLeighhhh* 1

I'm not some OLD COOT. I'm a young guy and I see so many GOOD LOOKIN GIRLS get involved with THE LOSER TYPES and walk around with THAT GUYS KID(S) like they're so proud. They don't even marry them. Sometimes it's kids by 2-3 different LOSERS. WHAT GIVES???

2007-12-27 13:55:29 · 16 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1

I normally carry my neice and she had a baby. I have been helping her with him since he was born. Her mother called child services on her and the baby was removed. should i still try to carru the child on my taxes or not?

2007-12-27 13:31:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a mother is gone for 5 years 3 of those in rehab can she come back and get custody again once she has lost it . This is her second set of kids she losses. She lost 3 kids 12 years ago now she lost 3 kids 5 years ago very unfit drug addict mother but she said she has changed going to church and all that good stuff. HELP ME PLEASE WORRIED DAD

2007-12-27 11:23:01 · 11 answers · asked by ernest 1

im 39weeks and latley ive been feeling really sick (neausea) and been going to the toilet alot more to but this morning i woke with the worst stomach cramping and pains when i went to the toilet i had diherreah i know this sounds gross but yeah what does this mean and is it normal i would contact my doctor but he isnt in the sydney australia area

2007-12-27 11:11:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 08:35:30 · 3 answers · asked by Janis S 1

2007-12-27 07:57:57 · 5 answers · asked by Torn Wings 6

in the month of october i made a choice and moved in with my fiance once he asked me to marry him. problem is that he still lives with his sister and her fiance (there getting married in sept.2008) he told me we get our own place but its been months now and im growing impatient. i really wanna start school and have a family (im always thinking about having a baby) i even wanna get a small dog. over and over we spoke about this but he always says "in given time" now im regretting even moving in or saying yes to his proposal. i tell him im moving back to my parents house and he whines and begs for me to stay (dumb me i do) now i dunno what to do. i feel hes trapping me from moving on with my life. hes a car salesman that works everyday from 7-8 except for wednsdays. so its not like hes there all the time. im currently looking for a job because i moved here and left everything behind just for him...now i feel it wasnt worth it...
any advice is good please give me something to learn from.

2007-12-27 05:57:26 · 38 answers · asked by Mrs.Durossndamaken 4

I am afraid this will damage my daughter's ears. Have you done anything creative to quiet down these toys? The noise doesn't bother me, but my daughter has so many of them, I am afraid of the damage it is causing her ears. I was thinking of putting either cotton or batting on the speaker portion and securely taping it down with packaging tape. That is all I can think of other than taking the toys away...any helpful hints on this?

2007-12-27 04:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by motherhoodisthebest! 2

At dinner at my grandparent's house last night (my mother in law was invited) I let it slip that I didn't want anyone at the hospital when I go into labor, and my husband and I would be calling people after the baby is born. Dorothy, my husbands mom, started arguing with me about it. She said that it's her grandchild and she'll be there if she wants to be. When I objected, she told my husband to call her after I've been given pain medication and she'll show up whether I want her to or not. I think that since it's my labor, I should be able to be as comfortable as possible. I can't do tht with my whole family hovering over me during contractions. I want my husband there with me and that's it. How do I get her to listen and respect my decision? I have a feeling that if I let her have her way on this instead of doing what I want, she'll try to take over when the baby's born. She lives 10 minutes away and I don't want to see her in our house every day while we try to get to know our child.

2007-12-26 15:25:34 · 12 answers · asked by garcia_lives86 2

2007-12-26 11:04:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do u smoke? and if u have kids, d u smoke next to them?

2007-12-26 09:30:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous