Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - December 2007

i am asking because my boyfriend has decided to go for lunch (he is a junior in high school). i don't really care, but i do feel a little uncomfortable with it. i am only 15 so yeah... should i not care? it makes me feel bad about myself... (sorry that sounds bad, but it really is true.)

2007-12-12 16:28:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a guy for a year. I was under the impression we had a committed relationship. I loved him, he said he loved me. I'm 25, we had even talked about marriage the the bomb dropped!! Six weeks ago he told me he was having a fling on the side & the girl is pregnant... 5 months pregnant. My heart was broken and my pride damaged. I found out a week later I was pregnant. Not only am I pregnant, I'm having twins. I told him and he responded he just wants his son. We have talked since then and he seems to be coming around but I haven't seen him in person since I told him. He suggested a name... thats all the interest he has shown. I personally fell in love with these babies when I saw them for the first time on the ultrasound. But Travis, well, He lies to me constantly.. what to do?!? I have a great job and can do this financially but I can't believe he has done this or is being this way. This is a man I loved and have been friends with for 15 years...

2007-12-12 14:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

so basically i have a primitive drive to spread my genes (i am a man, if thats not obvious) so id ideally like to impregnate women all over the world and have loads of kids. the problem with this is that it would be immoral, you know i couldnt raise them, it would be really unfair on all those mothers etc. and i want to marry one woman and have kids with her. but i really want loads of kids. how do i deal with this problem? i either have to stop wanting to have loads of children, or i have to find a way to have hundreds of kids morally, or i have to stop caring about morals. but i dont see any of those things happening...
any suggestions?
thank you!

2007-12-12 14:30:36 · 16 answers · asked by john9999999 3

I noticed that young girls (20 and under) that have babies are mostly poor uneducated and living with their parents.... Why is that, and why do they think this is a good way of life for them or the poor child? I never could understand this...

2007-12-12 12:23:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

yeah this is kinda a stupid question but w/e

on friday there is a school dance and i think my parents are letting me go first yes then no then yes and soo on

anyways dance is frm 5-8 but me and my friends are leaving like at 7 or 7:30 to go to the movies because 2 people dont wanna go to the dance so were joining them at the movies
ok anyways basically we r arriving most likely at 8 or 7:30 to the movies would u let ur daughter who is 12 yrs old and i am responsible and i actually answer my phone.
go to the movies with about 6 girls on a friday night no adult supervision im afraid to ask my parents because they are strict but i mean all the other girls parents are letting them go.
the movie theatre is actually pretty safe not ghetto and we r watching alvin and the chipmunks bom chicka wah wah haha anyways would u letter ur daughter go?

2007-12-12 09:36:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

,and she tells them stuff like when she was getting a scan done there where fast asleep and the docs had to wake them up ,is that the right sort of stuff to say to kids

2007-12-12 09:36:40 · 15 answers · asked by dazza 2

What is your opinion when it comes to abortion?

I believe it is murder, no matter the circumstances. Some people argue with me: "Well, what if you got pregnant because you were raped?" I still do not think having an abortion would be the right thing to do. Put it up for adoption, at the very least. I know life in foster homes and adoption facilities aren't the grandest - but is it not better than killing them? Than never even giving them a chance to live their life? Well, that is just my opinion. Bash it if you would like. I'm here to listen to your opinions.

2007-12-12 07:33:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 14 but i am great with children i practally raised my sisters baby boys (whom is 21 now ) and i am ready u mits say i have my whole life ahead of me but my nethews was my life and now they have moved away i am ready to have my own baby dont jugde me but can i just have some advice pleaseee thank you xxxxxx

2007-12-12 07:01:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are getting our family pics done Saturday.. it was a spur of the moment thing.. I called today to book an appt. at the studio in WalMart because they have this deal where we will get our pics back by Dec. 22nd which will be great to give out on Christmas day! Anyhow, we aren't sure of what to wear. I don't want to have a background with any Christmas trees or anything.. i was either wanting to do a white background or a black background... ....however, I have no idea what colors to get for our outfits.. I have a 1 year old and a 1 month old (both girls).. and they both have some very nice Red outfits....but I would think having us all in red would be too much...I could use some suggestions on what colors we should wear...

With a white background?? -- what colors?
With a black background?? -- what colors?

Thank you!

2007-12-12 06:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by I ♥ my irish twins! 4

I have heard that people that dont want kids are selfish and that they are not following the Bible because it says "go forth & multiply". Just wondering what other people thought about this.

2007-12-12 06:41:41 · 66 answers · asked by luvmybabies 3

Just out of curiousity- How many people felt sexy while their body was changing into the pregnancy state? What about after birth?

2007-12-12 05:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by Alina's Mommy 3

My province is now paying $1000 to people who have a child or adopt. They are trying to increase the population here. Would this sway people who are thinking about it?

2007-12-12 04:32:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im scared that i wont be able to when i get older :/
it seems like every adult woman i talk to these days had to adopt because she couldn't have kids!
what causes this?

2007-12-12 03:17:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If they never consulted you (whether it be your mother, mil, sister or whoever) and just gave your child their first haircut, then you found out afterward.

2007-12-11 23:29:31 · 14 answers · asked by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6

Igot no idea...best I could come up with is big fat puffin

2007-12-11 22:52:38 · 7 answers · asked by laughesalot 2

2007-12-11 21:52:45 · 2 answers · asked by rain 1

one of my options is terminating the pregnancy? I have no money no job i'm a full time college student. the father will not be in this childs life. i don't know how i'm gonna do it. my best option would be an abortion. (adoption is out of the question) any advice?

2007-12-11 15:18:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want a baby!! I know you should wait til' your married, but he doesn't beleive 2 people should HAVE to get married. Yes, he's one of those. And I have choosen to accept that. So please just disregard the fact that we are not married and focus on my actual question. He has been hinting around kinda about it, and we have only been together 6 months. He told me one time a few weeks ago that he was going to get me this for xmas and pointed at a picture of a baby. And then he told me that he asked his mom what she wanted for xmas, and she told him a grand baby. So I'm kinda unsure of how to tell him that IS what I want. I have a stable job. I live on my own. I can afford a baby and I know I could love him/her with all of my heart and soul. So if you understand where I am coming from please help me find a way to tell him this is what I reallllllly do want.

2007-12-11 15:11:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just recently found a pic of me my senior year in high school when i was at my thinnest. it hasnt been too long i'm only 21 but i just had a baby and my body changed a whole lot. i don't think it will ever be like it used to be. :(

do any of you moms out there feel like i do?

2007-12-11 14:39:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Plz. can i have some reasonable reasons why they shouldn't convict parents for their childrens crimes

2007-12-11 09:07:59 · 34 answers · asked by Ana R 1

I want to have a child with the best social security number possible, which may require me moving before the child is born. What geographical area corresponds to the best social security numbers? Thank you for your time.

2007-12-11 05:20:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anton 1

2007-12-11 05:02:04 · 7 answers · asked by Lovely N 1

I'm over 35 years old and having truble getting pregnet. Is there any body who had the same truble and were able to get pregnet.
Thanks,

2007-12-11 04:14:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a complete jerk when it comes to having any caring, concern, or understanding regarding my being pregnant. He thinks it is an "excuse" I use to act like a "B****".
I Love being pregnant. I just wish my husband would ALLOW me to enjoy it instead of acting like I should be HIS personal housekeeper and whipping post. I have had minor complications with this pregnancy and instead of being supportive he acts like the doctor said "she is wonderwoman" and can do EVERYTHING herself. Don't bother helping or being nice. After all YOU are the MAN! I just really need him to get some kind of clue and putting an empathy belly on him seems like the only way I MIGHT get SOME positive results.

2007-12-10 19:21:46 · 5 answers · asked by duesoon 1

I'm currently in the market for a convertible car seat for my children. My oldest currently has a Triumph convertible seat by Evenflo. So far so good, it's been a pretty decent seat, and it seems to be comfortable.
My baby is getting ready for a convertible seat, the infant seat is getting small, and I want to get my oldest a new one as well. I would like to know which seat do you currently own, and what your experience has been with it so far. There are way to many in the market and it's difficult to just choose one, if I could I would get all the ones I like, but that would be unnecessary spending :o)
Thanks for your advice!!!

2007-12-10 15:52:19 · 8 answers · asked by Butterflies 4

My dad died about 2 months ago (1 month before my 14th birthday). Though he was an alcoholic and a drug addict and very violent/abusive, he owned my heart...he broke it when he died (of an overdose, by the way). At the time I was looking for anything to make me feel better...so, I had sex for the first and last time until I get married. I knew at the time that it was stupid and foolish of me and that I was way too young, but I didn't care. We used protection but here I am, barely 14 and pregnant.

I haven't told anyone but my aunt (who I'm living with right now) and don't plan on telling anyone else but the father and a close friend. The dad is only 16 and I don't really know what his reaction will be. But, I can't blame him if he wants nothing to do with the baby...we're just kids.

I'm keeping the baby. I know I'm young but I grew up way before my time (I know what you're thinking, that I must not be too mature to get myself in this situation) and my aunt said she would help me anyway possible...I'm very lucky to have her. I know this isn't really a question, I'm just looking for some kind words. I'm a bit scared.

2007-12-10 09:45:00 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 08:44:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend and his wife are newly pregnant. It's their first child. And he is actually more anxious than she is. He is terrified of everything that could go wrong.

He is worried to death about birth defects. There are alot of them out there.

He is also worried that he could hurt the baby. Either by accident or on purpose. He points out how clumsy he is, and how most people who molest or abuse young kids are related to them.

This is really scaring him. He says he keeps getting these unwanted images in his head of things that could go wrong.

I think he is being awfully hard on himself. He has absolutely NO criminal record to speak of besides shoplifting once when he was a kid, and a traffic ticket. And he's never been violent or abusive to Suzy or anyone else. And he is very caring and good natured.

He's always been a bit of a worrier. So is this natural for a new father to be? Should he seek professional help if it doesn't go away?

2007-12-10 08:05:05 · 5 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3

2007-12-10 07:00:55 · 17 answers · asked by ஐ♥Bethஐ♥ 5

they ended up getting pregnant on their own and wanted you to have an abortion. It is their sperm and egg, but in another's body.

2007-12-10 06:59:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous