...but we both want me to stay home after having the baby to raise it, instead of going back to work, and sticking him/her in daycare.Problem is, my fiance doesn't make enough money yet, to even support both of us, let alone another person. We both want a baby, we've talked about it ever since we got engaged, but he keeps saying that if we get pregnant right away, then I will have to go back to work after....which isn't an option in my book. I have a sideline job besides the one I have now(Full time Accountant), Sideline Job(Mary Kay) & I make a good amount of money doing that, but he's afraid to get into a situation where we go broke right after we have the baby & Mary Kay doesnt make the cut!!...So I guess what I'm asking is, if anyone else in this situation or has been, and what did you do???...(If we waited until we could "afford" a baby, we'd be 30)
2007-12-21
01:15:16
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recklessracingirl
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