My friend and his wife are newly pregnant. It's their first child. And he is actually more anxious than she is. He is terrified of everything that could go wrong.
He is worried to death about birth defects. There are alot of them out there.
He is also worried that he could hurt the baby. Either by accident or on purpose. He points out how clumsy he is, and how most people who molest or abuse young kids are related to them.
This is really scaring him. He says he keeps getting these unwanted images in his head of things that could go wrong.
I think he is being awfully hard on himself. He has absolutely NO criminal record to speak of besides shoplifting once when he was a kid, and a traffic ticket. And he's never been violent or abusive to Suzy or anyone else. And he is very caring and good natured.
He's always been a bit of a worrier. So is this natural for a new father to be? Should he seek professional help if it doesn't go away?
2007-12-10
08:05:05
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