If they never consulted you (whether it be your mother, mil, sister or whoever) and just gave your child their first haircut, then you found out afterward.
2007-12-11 23:29:31 · 14 answers · asked by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
YES!!!! it happend to my first son.
i never cut his hair. he was 2 1/2 and i went for a trip i was gone 1 week. his god mother was watching him. all his hair was long blond and beautiful i kept it pulled back in a pony and he always wore boy clothes.
when i came home my boy had a mullet hair cut. of all the things a MULLETT!!!!!!
i was ferious. sad. life changed in an instant.
i think the first hair cut should only be done by the parents at their choice. or when the child is old enough to want one.
it is a very big thing like the first word or the first tooth or something like that.
I was very upset.
2007-12-12 06:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by yellowcloudwoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mother in law did this to our oldest son, and then to my daughter. I was ticked to say the least. Especially with my daughter because her hair took so long to come in. I don't get along all that well with my MIL so I just told her off, but that probably is not the best way to handle it.
She thought she was doing me a favor, or so she said. It was when he was ten months old, and I had wanted to wait until he was a year old. Good luck.
2007-12-12 03:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by carinabck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would be upset. The first haircut is a milestone and the parents should be there with camera, tissues, and etc.
I even got upset when my daughter gave HERSELF her first haircut when she was 3yr old. Actually she did a pretty good job but it scared me to death that she had used scissors.
2007-12-11 23:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This happend to me. My son was about 2 and he had the most beautiful curly blond hair. He went to his fathers for the weekend and his fathers girlfriend took him for a haircut without my consent....man was I upset. I cried for days..but what could I do...Nothing. Life goes on.
2015-06-01 08:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by Janice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be furious. My son has hispanic heritage and part of that heritage is to grow a pony tail. I had a cousin who's son was part Native American and it was also part of his heritage. One day while at a family get together, one of my aunts cut his pony tail off. It started a family feud because some family thought it was funny and others said she had no right to do it. I made it known on that day that none of them better ever think about doing it to my son.
2007-12-12 07:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be severely pissed beyond words. The first haircut is a special occassion that mom and dad should take part in.
2007-12-12 04:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely I would. I think it is very cheeky and something I would never dream of doing to someone else's child. In fact I would never cut any child's hair except my own at any time in their life without permission.
2007-12-11 23:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by LESLEY B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be really upset.With my religion we don't believe in cutting the females hair,but I would want to be there for my sons first haircut.That is something for the PARENTS not the grandparents or anyone else.So yeah I would be mad & they would get told off.
2007-12-12 08:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~ Ali ~*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG i would be really upset. that happen to me with my daughter her grandmother from her dads side took her and gave her a hair cut with out asking me. My daughter is 5yrs. and i didn't ever want to cut her hair so got her first hair cut @ 4yrs with her grandma.
2007-12-12 05:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by unknown 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be very upset. It is not any one elses choice on this matter. Even if the dad had done it without my knowledge, I would have be upset.
2007-12-12 11:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by MamaBear 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋