do you think the girl should get an abortion if she already had one that same year and she thinks thats whats best
2007-12-28 12:32:23 · 12 answers · asked by Sydney M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
nope. I think you should raise it... take responsibility for your actions.... Abortion is not a form of birth control.
2007-12-28 12:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by This is harder than it looks? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once 15 and pregnant. If I had to do it all over again, I would have had an abortion. Alas, I didn't know I was pregnant until I was 4 months thus eliminating that option. BF ditched the moment he heard of the pregnancy. I was bullied into giving my son up for adoption. His life is not a happy one.
Things are different today. There is a lot more support for young teen mothers and for their babies. DNA makes proving paternity wonderful, although getting support money from the father is still just as hard (you should be able to sue the boy's parents for support until he is 18, but, unfortunately, you can't). Today I would not choose either abortion or adoption, but raise the baby myself.
You have to make your own choice, but in addition, girl, you need to think of your priorities. Why are you having sex without a condom? Do you not know about disease or pregnancy? Are you truly that dumb? I was a naive rural kid with no support, but heck, you have computer access to all that is sex education. Use your brain!
2007-12-28 12:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the 15 yr old needs to get some birth control in the form of an IUD or a depo shot and quit banging every guy who comes along.
I also think an abortion is 1 option. She may want to consider adoption.
A 15 yr old is in no way ready or prepared to raise a child. I know this because my 15 yr old stepdaughter had a child and has not been a good parent. The kid doesnt have a chance.
2007-12-28 12:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well abortion is not a form of birth control..I do have to agree there.. however It does depend on when the abortion was performed... That may be something to talk with a doctor about before making the decision... but an abortion is one oway of dealing with this issue...however I feel that birth control in the future is a must regardless of the decision that is made.
2007-12-28 12:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by the1mom1997 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having an abortion isnt birtht control!!! She had another in the year. COME ON!!!!!
Maybe she should have thought about this before she had sex. I get so tired of hearing about teens having kids. CLOSE THE LEGS!!!!!!!!! TIme for the parents to step in. Whatever happen to that??? Dont they care anymore??? KEEP the baby. If you cant then put it up for adoption.
2007-12-28 14:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Amie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks like she needs to learn to be responsible about having sex. Get the deppo shot or somthing You know you can't hold the boy 100% responsible for the situation although i blame him also for not protecting himself.
She already had an abortion this year so what ever she decides She will do but god get some birthcontrol be responsible
2007-12-28 12:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hulagirl96734 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should rasie the baby! if she wasnt/isnt ready for one then she shouldnt be having sex. Sex is for people who are trying to have a baby and are married or deeply in love. She should take actions for what she did and raise the baby with much support from family and loved ones.
2007-12-28 12:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Everything You Lost 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you play adult games and you get adult prizes and you should take responsibility for your actions.
and the guy should also take responsibility for his actions as well by supporting both the woman and the child and paying child support.
don't want a baby? then do the right thing. either don't have sex or use protection.
pregnant and don't want it? what about adoption? adoption is a selfless act you know. giving your child up for another family who can't have kids and letting them raise your child as their own. instead of thinking about your own selfish self and trying to kill and murder an unborn child who doesn't even have a voice of its own.
2007-12-28 15:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by trace s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she should put the baby up for adoption and get some counseling.
go through a Christian agency, like bethana... you'll be able to interview birth parents, and they will be with you through the whole process.
and keep your legs closed, and take care of yourself and your baby! find a boy that respects you... even if it means that you have to wait for a few years for that right boy!
2007-12-28 13:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by theworldneedsmorelove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever u do dont get an abortion it should be as illegal as murder cause thats wut it is
if he doesnt want it when its born get a dna test so he noes as well as u that it is his (so he cant denie it) and tell him to pay child support.
2007-12-29 20:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋