Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - August 2006

So my boyfirend and I are moving out together in January. We have been together for two years. We are very excited. Thing is we both have a little debt (around $2000 each). We also need to get a lot of things for the apartment, like furniture and stuff.

I have a daughter and he has a son, so I am also worried about christmas for them. We would wait a little longer, but we cant, his parent have told him January 2007 is his deadline to get out.

How can we pull this off? We need a plan....please give me any ideas. We would like to move out debt free, just so that monkey is off of our backs.

PS We both go to school. I work 35 hours a week and he works like 30, but he is going to get a second job after his custody hearing.
We each make around $1500 a month. there are few other bills invovled, not totaling more than $400 on each side. Plus the expenses of raising two kids.

2006-08-24 04:12:14 · 6 answers · asked by cookies_n_cream0218 5

She had money and family support to take care of her baby girl but she wanted to do adoption so b4 they give them to the adopting parents or agency they give you the baby for a couple of hours to see if you still want and she still signed her over she said that she cant handle that in her life right now she is 20!!! and i had my son at 16 and i kept him and adoption nor abortion was an option and i didnt even have a job my parents helped me and i went threw rough times. but she has a job and family support can some one tell me why she is such a bad mom how can anyone just give there kid away wen they can maintain them????

2006-08-24 04:05:21 · 42 answers · asked by lola 3

The father of my child was cheating on me while pregnant and attempted to hit me when i confronted him. He hasnt helped me from the moment we found out we were pregnant. july i found out he was cheating on me and i tried to convince him to change so we could be a family and he let me know he didnt want anything to do with me like i did something to him. he doesnt call to see if i need anything or help and neither does his family. he just wants me to contact him when i go into labor and thats when he'll start being around. so i dont want him or his family in my childs life due to the fact he was goin to hit me. he said he wasnt and he only did that cause he was mad. so from that i took that he would more than likely yell, shake or hit my child and blame it on being mad! now i am goin to move to another state due to not being happy where i am now.

2006-08-24 03:51:59 · 17 answers · asked by foxzie006 3

I think its great Im against abortion so I think it is just the most perfect thing if you have an accident! Dont you?

2006-08-24 03:40:19 · 9 answers · asked by dreamgirl4myboy 4

2006-08-24 03:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by shane 1

If all the women out there who have abortions realized that a private adoption (i.e. a family contacts an attorney looking for an infant, and finds you, versus placing your baby with the state after he/she is born) could put as much as $30,000 in your pocket, would you still have an abortion or would you suffer through your pregnancy to make this much money?

Not trying to start an argument here--just curious.

2006-08-24 03:17:31 · 21 answers · asked by brevejunkie 7

i moved back to pittsburgh after 7 months in scranton, pa for a job that didnt work out. a couple of months later got back with my x and got pregnant. pittsburgh is not for me and im not happy here. when i moved to scranton i didnt know anyone so when i move this time i want to move to a state where i know ppl or have family for support and companionship. butr am i crazy to want to move after having my baby? even tho i will not not move until i get a good offer from a company with relocation assistance included.

2006-08-24 03:04:22 · 17 answers · asked by foxzie006 3

i moved back to pittsburgh after 7 months in scranton, pa for a job that didnt work out. a couple of months later got back with my x and got pregnant. pittsburgh is not for me and im not happy here. when i moved to scranton i didnt know anyone so when i move this time i am moving to states where i know ppl or have family for support and companionship. butr am i crazy to want to move after having my baby? even tho i will not not move until i get a good offer from a company with relocation assistance included.

2006-08-24 03:03:30 · 9 answers · asked by foxzie006 3

I had a miscarriage in July and got pregnant again in Early Aug and now am miscarrying again. I had a D&C with the first one but it was rushed and so unpleasant and painful. I still have antibiotics from that one and started taking them as soon as I started miscarrying again. The Doctor that I went to last time was so Cold and wasn't very compassionate. I am new to the area and didn't have a OB/Gyn so the Hospital referred me to one. Now I am afraid to go get checked out. He just slapped me on the table and just started cleaning me out and it was painful. I was already dialated though but still it was painful. He didn't even tell me what to expect. So this is why I want to know if I can go through this on my own along with antibiotics. I am throwing out a bunch of clots and changing my pad every 2 to three hours. I just feel like I'm on my period but with clots. I felt this way during my last miscarriage. I am only 4wks with this one and the first I was 4wks also.

2006-08-24 01:54:26 · 11 answers · asked by stuffyluvbug 4

2006-08-24 01:23:38 · 13 answers · asked by mitch 1

I was 4 weeks pregnat.. i think i had a miscarriage last night i want to go to the doctor but im scared of what they will do ?? HAS ANY ONE HAD A miscarrige this early .. if yes ? what happend and what did the doctors dooooooo? ... thank YOU SO MUCH !

2006-08-24 01:14:00 · 21 answers · asked by ChuLAD3P0nC3 2

well i was supposed to have my period on the 15th and i took three home pragnance tests the y came back neg. but it also runs in my family that you have to get a blood test to actually get results becuase the D**** home tests dont work. Am i pragnant?


also i dont have a ride to a hospital to take a blood test

2006-08-23 22:11:45 · 10 answers · asked by the wonderer 1

Were you using it correctly and how long were you on the pill before you got pregnant?

2006-08-23 22:11:36 · 7 answers · asked by Melissa S 1

Anyone know where I can get help trying to get a car? I'm 5 months pregnant and I know I'm going to need a car to take me and my child to the doctors, me to work, and her to family members houses to stay awhile. Is there any program for soon to be mothers out there that can help me?? Thank you =)

2006-08-23 21:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Quin 2

2006-08-23 21:43:21 · 4 answers · asked by Rana S 1

My husband has asked me this question somany times. I don't think what I'm eating is really all that unusual. my favorite in pickles with tabasco sauce. What did you guys eat when you were pregnant?

2006-08-23 21:40:50 · 4 answers · asked by Dark Angel 2

I AGREE WITH YOU COMPLETELY!!! I thought I was one of the few people (and one of the only women) that feels the way I do. My body, my choice! I'm going to run for president... VOTE FOR ME!! Lol... but seriously... GOOD JOB. :)

2006-08-23 21:24:15 · 8 answers · asked by justme 4

why shud i breast feed my child. then tell me the best positions to do so. and some sites for viewing vidoes of people breats feeding and also mastur*****g. please be serious. please help me with sites

2006-08-23 21:21:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-08-23 20:05:36 · 6 answers · asked by juelz.m 2

i ain't asking cuz i want to just leave my chick,cuz shes now pregnant,i am simply wondering,like if i dont get a blood test to assure that its mine...and she says i got her pregnant but there is no proof,do i still have to pay for the baby and all that? or can they file a case on me since she is 14 and im 16?if theres no given proof other than what she says or her parents..

2006-08-23 19:28:43 · 35 answers · asked by roy 1

Read my other question.
I dont think they would believe me like i said i told his x and his girl and they dont believe me. His x and i agreed to let all three kids see eachother.(he left her after she got pregnant again)Thats the right thing to do dont you think?My kid is the middle child now.

2006-08-23 19:17:40 · 2 answers · asked by elmo 2

by a friend of you guardians and got pregnant would you tell anyone or let them think it was consentual.

2006-08-23 18:42:09 · 17 answers · asked by elmo 2

I was interested to know what was sex like after a vaginal birth after your first child. I know that every woman in different but I would like to know how it was for all of you. Was it the same, was it different?? Im scared that it would be painfull and not the same and not as pleasurable for my partner.

2006-08-23 18:29:13 · 12 answers · asked by bttf_85 2