If you get a chick pregnant,do you HAVE to take responsibility for it.?

Question

i ain't asking cuz i want to just leave my chick,cuz shes now pregnant,i am simply wondering,like if i dont get a blood test to assure that its mine...and she says i got her pregnant but there is no proof,do i still have to pay for the baby and all that? or can they file a case on me since she is 14 and im 16?if theres no given proof other than what she says or her parents..

Answer 1

ur d*mn straight you have to take responsibility for that baby, you deserve it to your child and its mother, you should have known better to sleep with a 14yr old baby, and if you didn't then you shouldn't be having sex in the first place, you can deny it all you want but when you leaver her sitting there wondering where her child's father went..... then you are in for it, worse than a woman scorned, is the father of an underage single mother! you will paying for that baby and its mother for 18years, you haven't even been alive that long, and I'll tell you right now child support is a b*tch, and if you don't pay it you go to jail, and they can keep you there let you go to work then straight back there, till you get ur payments at least up to date, that's what my sister did to her dead beat baby daddy, and whats about to happen with mine, if he don't start paying for his baby, 9 outta 10 times you don't even get a choice cause they take it out of your check, that is 17% of everything you make every month, for 18yrs, but did you know it that kids goes to college you continue until they are no longer in school! just get you a paternity test, if you think you need one, or just go to Maury! and let him fix this whole mess for you........

you know Americas youth is going to hell in a hand basket!!!


and for the genius that said the comment about the baby not looking like you....... listen to this my son looks nothing like his dad, he is a blonde haired blue eyed, pale little boy, looks just like his mommy, and his dad as dark brown hair, green eyes and is naturally tanned...oh and yea it is his kid he is the only onle i have ever slept with so, you're SOL on thinking anything diff..... and my brothers daughter has almost black hair, brown eyes and as a hispanic skin tone, but my brother looks like me and my son, blonde hair blue eyes, and white! its all genetics and genes, its determined but the dominat and ressesive traits that the parents carry.

Answer 2

Yes you are responsible if its your baby. Do you have any reason to doubt that its your baby or not? Thats something you should always ask yourself. You shouldn't be rude to her it takes two. She is going to be going through a lot right now. So just be there for her and it will go by fast and you'll find out if its your baby. I am saying that because what if this baby is yours and your not there for her and see your child born? I would want you to make too many mis-takes. Talk to her tell her you are scared, am sure she will tell you the same. Her body is going to be doing a lot of changes so her hormones will be a little crazy.

Ok to really answer your question: Yes take responsibility! If you do not have proof its your baby they will make you take a paternity test. While you are waiting on the results you will not have to pay anything, if it is your baby then they will go back and make you pay for the other days! Also if the baby takes your last name they will make you pay with out a test! But thats only if you sign the birth-certificate!

Answer 3

Why wouldn't you want to pay for things for your child. It doesn't make since. You sound like someone who didn't have a father growing up. If you want to know if the child is yours for sure take a DNA test. You can even ask the hospital where the baby is born if they provide them before you even leave the hospital. Unless you would like a constable at front door with papers for court to make you establish paternity of the child, then put you on child support. When all you had to do was the right thing. Even though your not, try to act like a real man.

Answer 4

If you had sex with a girl, and she became pregnant, you are financially responsible, like it or not. (You play, you pay!) Even if you don't think the baby is yours, all that the mother has to do is go to court, where the judge will order her to have a blood test done on you and the baby to establish paternity. If it is proven that you are the father and you don't pay child support, it can lead to serious consequences-- you can lose your driver's license, end up in jail, have your wages garnished, etc. But I have a question for YOU: Do you have serious reasons to suspect that this baby isn't yours, or are you just trying to shirk out of your responsibilities? If you are, then that's just wrong. You're depriving this child out of a father and turning your back on your girlfriend during one of the most difficult times in her life! That's very selfish and unfair--like I said, it takes two to tango--she didn't have sex by herself- so you need to step up to the plate and be a man. Your girfriend needs you now , and this child will need its father, not only financially, but emotionally, too. Think about it.

Answer 5

If she's only 14 you shouldn't have been sleeping with her anyways! If she intends on keeping this child, make sure you get a test done to be POSITIVE its yours if there is any doubt.
If she does keep this baby and it is yours, it would be your responsibility to care for the child in some ways, financially or emotionally. You made it!

Talk to an adult about this. This is a very serious situation. There are enough children out there that were never really planned for or wanted. Please try to get some help and convince this girl to make a right decision for all of you! Good luck.

Answer 6

You need to realize that you are going to be a dad, as much as you probably don't care, but now you have two choices.
To be a part of the babies life, which means growing up or not ever doing anything and turning in to a dead beat daddy before you are 21.
I say grow up and realize what you have done. Take the test. Remember the courts can legal force you to take a test. Be a good dad, still be kid but realize what you have done and the right things to do.

Answer 7

If you are the father the answer is yes, with DNA testing you can be held responsible. If you refuse to be named as the father DNA testing will decide. This means that until the child reaches the age of 18 you can be made financially responsible. It does not matter if you used protection or she told you she was on the pill. The rule for having sex is the understanding that you could create a baby. If you are not ready to deal with a child you are not ready for sex. Real men raise their children, boys run away. A 16 year old boy is not ready to raise a baby and should not be having sex.

Answer 8

First of all if you are old enough to be in a sexual relationship you are old enough to take responsibility. As a 16 year old you should have known better to have sex with a 14 year old in the first place.

Under the circumstances if you are named as the father and deny it you may be supeoned by the court to take the patrenity test.

Do the right thing and get your girlfriend through this and don't complicate the situation. This baby needs a good home I encourage you to talk about giving it up for adoption.

Answer 9

people this young have no right to have sex and this is one of the reasons why. If you got her pregnant you are responsible (at the very least financially) for the next 18 years. Hopefully she will go after you for child support and the courts will order a peternity test and it will prove either way if you are the father. Or you can always go on the Maury show....

Answer 10

Support her right now,after she has the baby get a blood test.If the baby is yours,be a man and take take of your baby!You don't want to regret not taking care"if yours" of the baby!My sister was 14,and her boyfriend 16 too when she had her baby girl!My niece is now almost 8 and her father is barley starting to have something to do with her!He really regrets it!It took him almost dying to realize what he had!He is now paralyze and can't do the things he could have done with her before!I hope if this is your baby you make the right choice to be a dad!Good Luck,and God Bless!

Answer 11

If she puts you down as the father on the birth certificate, it's up to you to proof you're not the father to avoid paying child support. Get the blood test first cause it's cheaper. Then the DNA test if the kids doesn't look like you.