i moved back to pittsburgh after 7 months in scranton, pa for a job that didnt work out. a couple of months later got back with my x and got pregnant. pittsburgh is not for me and im not happy here. when i moved to scranton i didnt know anyone so when i move this time i am moving to states where i know ppl or have family for support and companionship. butr am i crazy to want to move after having my baby? even tho i will not not move until i get a good offer from a company with relocation assistance included.
2006-08-24 03:03:30 · 9 answers · asked by foxzie006 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
me and the father are not together cause he cheated on me while pregnant and attempted to hit me. so him and his father are not and will nt be in my babys life.
2006-08-24 03:23:37 · update #1
If a parent isn't content in his life, how will the child be content. As long as you are moving into a safe inviroment for the child, tehn you go ahead and move, being around family is always the bes thing for a child to have the love of a parents family is wonderful for that child
2006-08-24 03:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by elegant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should check the state laws. It is illegal to take a child across state lines without the other parents permission in MN. That means vacations moving whatever. Even if the father has no other rights he has that one. You may want to speed up the moving process if that's the case. If the child is born in a different state then the father has no rights about keeping him in the same state. Good luck and congratulations. It may seem like a rough time now but you are being blessed with the greatest gift people know enjoy your future.
2006-08-24 03:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to feel good where ever you are. If your ex doesn't have problems with you moving then go ahead. It sounds like you have a good plan in waiting for a good job offer. Make sure you have some savings and don't count on re-location services though, not all companies provide like that for a brand new employee. Congratulations on your new baby and good luck with your decisions!
2006-08-24 03:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by ore2nc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better earlier than later. Newborns are a lot of work - but they are also easier to do things with because they sleep a lot. If you know people where you are moving - you may also be able to get some help so you can do things without always having the baby right with you.
2006-08-24 03:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by kpizura 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its fine to move after having your baby... Especially if you are moving closer to family and friends. You and your baby will need a good support system. If you are a family oriented person the move will be great b/c your child will definitely learn the importance and value of family.
2006-08-24 03:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Cocoabutta98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont see anything wrong with moving with a baby. Im going to do that. my husband is getting deployed in oct of this year and im not due till dec right after i have the baby when she is about 2 weeks. my children and i are moving back to texas. i just have to do constant stops to feed everyone! good luck and be careful
2006-08-24 03:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs support especially right after they have their first child......If you feel that you have a good plan on how to get back on your feet and you feel that moving back will help you then go for it and dont look back...If you dont have a game plan and you are just moving to get away I would suggest to get your plan together then move....You sound like you are going to do it either way...just make sure you have enough money saved up to be alright financially.....good luck....
2006-08-24 03:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont see why its any different than moving any other time. Babies go where you go, it wouldnt be harmful to the baby. Although the stress on you after having a child might be more than you bargained for.
2006-08-24 03:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you let the kid rule your life now it will always rule your life.. its no big deal to move with a baby - people do it all the time..
its important to be closer to family and support
one kid will keep you busy so make sure you plan not to get pregnant again
2006-08-24 03:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋