i moved back to pittsburgh after 7 months in scranton, pa for a job that didnt work out. a couple of months later got back with my x and got pregnant. pittsburgh is not for me and im not happy here. when i moved to scranton i didnt know anyone so when i move this time i want to move to a state where i know ppl or have family for support and companionship. butr am i crazy to want to move after having my baby? even tho i will not not move until i get a good offer from a company with relocation assistance included.
2006-08-24 03:04:22 · 17 answers · asked by foxzie006 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
me and the father are not together cause he cheated on me while pregnant and attempted to hit me. so him and his father are not and will nt be in my babys life.
2006-08-24 03:24:19 · update #1
No you are not crazy. you need a support group when you have a newborn. just take care of yourself and the baby and you both will be fine.
2006-08-24 03:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by stormy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will tell you the truth: Figure what regrets you want to live with down the line. If you feel that you will regret this decision later but still push on..then it will be much harder on you later when you review it after its done and over. Figure out what it is going to take to really make you happy and go after it and make sure you wont feel regrets about it.
2006-08-24 10:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by pierson1953 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to where you have a support system...but you might want to think about the father wanting to be in the childs life...you can't stop him from seeing the baby. He can take you to court to see his child, and can stop you from moving to another state
2006-08-24 12:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take your baby somewhere nice and safe for them to grow up. If your not happy baby won't be. Its always good to have family and friends around with a little one.
2006-08-24 10:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by bad-dreemz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be no problem moving with a baby, unless the Daddy and court system says you can't.
2006-08-24 10:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and i have a 1 month old and are moving to AZ from FL. We have no family or support system in AZ, you can do it. As long as your child gets fed, loved, and changed he/ she will be fine.
2006-08-24 10:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Brad C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. He/she is never gonna know weather you moved or not. Just make sure he/she is not sick and in stable condition for the move. Other then that you should be ready and rearein' to move! Hope this information helps you! =D
2006-08-24 10:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by FigrSk8tr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'll have family there who can help you with your child and so that your child can get to know his extended family, then I think it's a good idea.
2006-08-24 10:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. if you're family and friends are there..go for it..you'll need them.
(Sorry, said no before but really wanted to say yes!)
2006-08-24 10:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Beachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? The baby isn't going to know anything at that age....if you wait until they are in school and have friends, that's when it's tough
2006-08-24 10:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by ndussere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋