I have 2 children with my x-husband, they are 9 & 11. We divorced in 1997. He is now married to my little sister, has been arrested for drug related charges 8 times since our divorce, works out of state & is only home on weekends. He does pay his child support faithfully & has my sister pick the kids up for his visitation times. But he keeps taking me to court, 5 times in the last 8 years. He is trying to get custody. I have physical custody & he has reasonable rights to visitation, but he thinks he can raise them better than I can. I win each time we go to court, I have an awesome lawyer, but it is starting to get expensive. I have paid out a total of $9,000.00 not including the divorce ($2000.00). I was wondering if anyone had advice on how to get him to stop taking me to court. I can't hire a hitman, and I'm not going to let him have custody. The kids don't want to live with him, but they do love thier dad. How can I get him to see that he is only hurting the kids?
2006-07-28
14:01:31
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Feeling Froggy
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